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---Q & A----

                                                                                 EP: What inspired you to write this
      She emerged from it a stronger,       either further Old Normal or lead    book?
      more optimistic and more              us into a New Normal. Usually, we
      passionate person. She is an          don’t recognize the power that we    C Rose: It started with a conversation I
      executive and business coach who      have to make change… in our          had with a friend in the Summer of
      devotes much of her time and          choices. Once you identify that      2018. We were talking about MeToo and
      passion to helping people be          there is power for transformation,   we both felt there was longevity in that
      agents of growth, change, and         we begin to see and then seize the   hashtag. As a coach, I wanted to bring
      service to others.                    options and our power. I have        what I know about coaching to help
                                            witnessed this time and again with   guide people through the continuation
      Christine volunteers at many local    my business clients.”                of the conversation. We both agreed it is
      organizations in her native Seattle                                        essential for more people to step up and
      area, particularly ones that          The printed copies of the book       be part of changes-- in how we think
      support girls, women, and             were first available on Christmas    and what we tolerate as a society. I
      students, as well as low income,      Day, which has deep meaning for      explained my ideas to her, and my title,
      homeless and minority                 Christine as a believer in Christ.   which at the time was “What’s Next?”
      populations.                          She says she wanted the book to      My girlfriend said, you must write it, so
                                            be her gift to the world. Similarly,  many horrible things are happening
      While the book and its                the rose that forms the letter “I” in  these days. I told her I don’t think the
      information and coaching will         Life on the book cover is intended   world can lose this window of
      certainly be helpful to victims, the  to be a gift—a symbol of growth,     opportunity for deep cultural change. It
      book is for everyone, and it is       love and healing extended to         soon became a calling.
      important to know that stories of     every woman who has suffered
      sexual violence are not limited to    abuse and in particular, the brave   EP: What was the most challenging part
      any race, gender, ethnicity or        ones who told their stories.         of writing it?
      social status. The book is created
      to engage us all in thinking,         We spoke with Christine and          C Rose: It wasn’t easy getting people’s
      discussing, listening and plotting    explored her life in depth—as an     stories at first, but I was fortunate to
      out a better future.                  author, a woman, and an              have a research assistant to help with
                                            individual who chooses               that. Then, once they came in, the real
      From a coaching perspective,          happiness. One aspect of that is     challenge became editing. How do you
      Christine would love for people       her delight in igniting change.      write about this topic in a way to engage
      pick to up a book, read it, and                                            readers without the emotional drain? It
      understand what happened,                                                  is quite negative and depressing to think
      especially since many people are                                           about how awfully people treat one
      not connected to the news. She                                             another. My version of a world that is
      wanted to bring clarity to it all,                                         safe kept me going! I really do believe
      why those stories were important,                                          we have the potential to do better. There
      where we are in the world in                                               are societies in the world where this
      terms of a culture that supports                                           kind of violence doesn’t happen, where
      such stories and occurrences. She                                          girls and women are treated with more
      wanted to shed light on how                                                respect.
      deeply rooted the cultural
      imbalance is, and what we can all                                          EP: What did it take to get the book
      do to make things better.                                                  published within the planned year?

      Christine emphasizes “The choices                                          C Rose: Sometimes it felt slow, but
      that we make every day will                                                truthfully, I only began writing about a

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