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‫ﻭﻗﻔﺎﺕ ﻭﻣﻮﺍﻗﻒ‪ 2‬ﺍﻟﻌﻻﻗﺎﺕ ﺍﻟﻜﻮﻳﺘﻴﺔ ﺍﻟﺒﺤﺮﻳﻨﻴﺔ‬ ‫ﺻﻊ‪،,٧"،‬‬

‫‪,‬ﺍﻭﻥ"‬

‫ﺍﻟﻌﺮﺱ ﻭﺍﻟﺰﻭﺍﺝ‪،‬‬

‫ﻓﺮﺿﺖ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﺩﺍﺕ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﻘﺎﻟﻴﺪ ﻍ ﻛﻠﺘﺎ ﺍﻟﺪﻭﻟﺘﻴﻦ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺘﻢ ﻣﻌﻈﻢ ﺍﻟﺰﻳﺠﺎﺕ ﺩﺍﺧﻞ ﻧﻄﺎﻕ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﺋﻠﺔ‬
‫ﺍﻮﻟﺍﺪﺣﺓ‪ ،‬ﻭﻫﻲ ﺎﻋﺩﺓ ﺗﻌﻮﺩ ﻟﻠﻤﺠﻤﺘﻤﻊ ﺍﻟﺰﺭﺍﻲﻋ‪ 2‬ﺍﻟﺒﺤﺮﻳﻦ ﻭﺍﻊﻤﺘﺠﻤﻟ ﺍﻟﻘﺒﻠﻲ ‪ 2‬ﺍﻟﻜﻮﻳﺖ ﻗﺪﻳﻤﺎ‪،‬‬
‫ﻭﻛﺜﻴﺮﺍ ﻣﺎ ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﺗﺴﻤﻰ ﺍﻟﺒﻨﺖﻻﺑﻦ ﻋﻤﻬﺎ ﻣﻨﺬ ﺍﻟﺼﻐﺮ‪ ،‬ﻭﻳﺒ ًﺪﺍ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺍﺝ ﺑﺎﻟﺨﻄﺒﺔ ﻭﻫﻲ ﻋﻦ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﻧﺴﺎﺀ‬
‫ﺍﺎﻌﻟﻦﻴﺘﻠﺋ ﻓﺈﺫﺍ ﺗﻢ ﺍﻟﻮﻓﺎﻕ ﺍﺟﺘﻤﻊ ﻭﺍﻟﺪ ﺍﻟﺨﻄﺎﺏ ﻣﻊ ﻭﺍﻟﺪ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ ﻟﻄﻠﺐ ﻳﺪ ﺍﺑﻨﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﺛﻢ ﻳﺤﻤﻞ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ‬
‫ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ ﺍﻟﻤﻬﺮ ﻭﺍﻟﻬﺪﺍﻳﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺍﺎﻴﺜﻟﺏ ﻣﻮﺿﻮﻋﺔ ﻍ »ﺍﺔﺸﻘﺒﻟ«‪،‬ﻭﺍﻮﻠﺤﻟﻯ ﻍ ﺻﻮﺍﻥ ﻛﺒﻴﺮﺓ ﺎﻄﻐﻣﺓ‬
‫ﺣﻤﻠﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺭﺅﻭﺳﻬﻦ ﻭﻋﺎﺩﺓ ﻣﺎ ﻳﺼﺎﺣﺐ ﻫﺬﺍ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﻛﺐ ﺑﺎﻷﻫﺎﺯﻳﺞ ﺍﻟﺨﺎﺻﺔ ﺑﺎﻟﻤﻨﺎﺳﺒﺔ‪ .‬ﻭﺗﺰﻳﻦ‬
‫ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺛﻻﺛﺔ ﺍﻳﺎﻡ ﻣﻦ ﻟﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﺱ‪ ،‬ﻭﻋﻘﺪ ﺍﻟﻘﺮﺁﻥ »ﺍﺔﺠﻠﻤﻟ« ﻓﻤﻮﻋﺪﻫﺎ ﻑ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﺩﺓ ﻗﺒﻞ ﻟﻴﻠﺔ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺰﻓﺎﻑ ﺑﻌﺪﺓ ﺍﻳﺎﻡ‪ .‬ﻭﺗﺒﻘﻰ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ ﺑﺎﻟﺒﻴﺖ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﻟﻤﻠﺠﺔ ﻻ ﺗﻐﺎﺩﺭﻩ ﺇﻻ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺍﺝ‪ ،‬ﻣﺎ ﺗﻘﻮﻡ‬
‫ﺍﻟﺨﻄﺎﺑﺔ ﺑﻮﺿﻊ ﺍﻟﺤﻨﺔ ﻑ ﻛﻔﻲ ﻭﻗﺪﻣﻲ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ ﻗﺒﻞ ﻟﻴﻠﺔ ﺍﻟﺰﻓﺎﻑ‪ ،‬ﻭ‪ 2‬ﻫﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﻠﻴﻠﺔ ﻳﺬﻫﺐ ﺍﻟﻤﻌﺮﺱ‬
‫‪ 2‬ﻣﻮﻛﺐ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺑﻴﺖ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ‪ ،‬ﻭﻗﺪ ﺍﺣﺎﻁ ﺑﻪ ﺃﺻﺪﻗﺎﺅﻩ ﺣﻴﺚ ﻳﻤﻜﺚ ﻋﺪﺓ ﺍﻳﺎﻡ‪ 2‬ﺑﻴﺖ ﺍﻟﻌﺮﻭﺱ ﺛﻢ‬

‫ﻳﻨﺘﻘﻻ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺑﻴﺖ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺝ‪.‬‬

‫ﻭﻫﻜﺬﺍ ﻓﺎﻥ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﺩﺍﺕ ﺍﻻﺳﺮﻳﺔ ﻭﺍﺣﺪﺓ‪ ،‬ﻭﺣﻔﻻﺕ ﺧﺘﺎﻥ ﺍﻻﻃﻔﺎﻝ ﺗﻜﺎﺩ ﺗﻜﻮﻥ ﻧﻔﺴﻬﺎ ﻭﺍﺣﻴﺎﺀ ﻟﻴﺎﻟﻲ‬
‫ﺭﻣﻀﺎﻥ ﻭﻃﺒﺨﺎﺗﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﺃﺑﻮ ﻃﺒﻴﻠﺔ ﻭ»ﺍﺮﻘﻟﺎﻌﻗﻥ«‪ .‬ﻭﻟﻴﺲ ﻣﻜﺎﻧﻨﺎ ﻫﻨﺎ ﺍﻟﺤﺼﺮ ﻓﻠﻦ ﻳﺴﻌﻔﻨﺎ ﺍﻟﻮﻗﺖ ﻭﺇﻧﻤﺎ‬

‫ﺍﻛﺘﻔﻴﻨﺎ ﺑﻬﺬﻩ ﺍﻟﻨﻤﺎﺫﺝ ﺍﻟﺘﻲ ﺗﻈﻬﺮ ﻧﻤﺎﺫﺝ ﺍﻟﺸﻌﺒﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﺸﻘﻴﻘﻴﻦ‪.)"0‬‬

‫ﻇﻬﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﻂ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﻐﻴﻴﺮﺍﻻﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻲ ﻭﺍﻟﺜﻘﺎﻑ‬

‫ﻟﻘﺪ ﺃﺣﺪﺙ ﻇﻬﻮﺭ ﺍﻟﻨﻔﻂ ﺗﺪﻓﻖ ﻋﻮﺍﺋﺪﻩ ﺍﻧﻘﻻﺑﺎ ﻑ ﺍﻟﻤﻮﺍﺯﻳﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﻌﻴﺸﻴﺔ ﻭﺍﺣﺪﺍﺙ ﺗﻐﻴﺮ ﻛﺒﻴﺮ‪2‬‬

‫(‪ )١‬ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺟﻊ ﺍﻟﺴﺎﺑﻖ‪ .‬ﺹ ‪٠٢٠٦٠٢٠٢‬‬