Page 86 - Southern Oregon Magazine Winter 2018
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feature | caring for body & soul








                                     HOSPICE CREATES A SAFE SPACE FOR



                                    BOTH PATIENTS AND LOVED ONES TO


                                     ACCOMPLISH THESE GOALS, A PL ACE


                                         WHERE THEY NEED NOT BE AFRAID.









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                                                                                       Hospice is structured to serve the person
                                                                                       and his or her needs. To support physical,
                                                                                       spiritual, familial, and emotional needs, to
                                                                                       encourage the best quality of life. People
                                                                                       are cared for on an individual-need basis,
                                                                                       not with a one-size-fits-all mentality. Often,
                                                                                       dying people cannot articulate their needs
                                                                                       verbally, so caretakers focus on the heart-
                                                                                       centric piece. “It’s intuitive in a way, also
                                                                                       very mindful and observant,” says Hearn.

                                                                                       At the end of life, many people feel a need
                                                                                       to forgive  and to be  forgiven. They seek
                                                                                       opportunity to share  their feelings, their
                                                                                       love for others, their need to feel they aren’t
                                                                                       alone. Human touch is key and important.
                                                                                       A dying person has lost a good deal of con-
                                                                                       trol, yet still seeks a sense of ownership of
                                                                                       his destiny. Hospice creates a safe space for
                                                                                       both patients and loved ones to accomplish
                                                                                       these goals, a place where they need not be
                                                                                       afraid.

                                                                                       Hospice caretakers help their patients cre-
                                                                                       ate lasting memories. “We are our stories,
                                                                                       and after we die, we are remembered and
                                                                                       brought back to life by the stories we’ve
                                                                                       told,” says Hearn. Southern Oregon Friends
                                                                                       of Hospice endeavors to facilitate a well-
                                                                                       supported ending, to make the experience
                                                                                       as meaningful and positive as possible.



                                                                                                Southern Oregon Friends of Hospice
                                                                                                              541-613-0543
                                                                                                   info@SOFriendsOfHospice.org



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