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through your ignorance the outcome will be unsavoury. If you
choose through your awareness the outcome will be truly
enjoyable. You will remember the basic rule, “ If it makes you
happy, do it. If it makes you unhappy, don’t do it.” If you feel
a situation is unkind to you, it is important to realise that no
matter what might appear to be contributing factors, it has still
been as a consequence of a choice you made sometime
previously, maybe even before your current incarnation. You
chose to be born into the world of matter. You chose the best
route for accessing what you needed in that world. It can then
be seen that not only did you choose those who would provide
you with the physical body but you also chose who you would
like to share life with. You chose your family. They in their
individuality chose you also.

The family unit therefore is the consequences of the spiritual
choices of perfect individuals. Any dysfunction with the
family is a reflection of the subtle interference of negativity,
often manifested through the ego of the individuals
comprising that family being in conflict, commonly referred
to as sibling rivalry. This rivalry is often unconsciously
created through the unaware actions and responses of the
parents. The parents in their turn have been conditioned by
their parents and influenced by their upbringing. There is no
blame to be apportioned to any parent as each are chosen for
the quality of life they bring into the life of their child, no
matter how negative that might appear. You have chosen to be
in the family to share in the chosen experiences of others and
to gain the awareness this can afford you. You will only get
the positive benefit of these experiences should you take this
responsibility onto yourself. The contribution that each