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Introduction
Having allergies can sometimes be a nuisance. Yet there are actually some surprising benefits. You’ve probably had people say things like “Wow, it must really suck not to be able to eat what everyone else is eating” or “Isn’t it annoying having to carry around your auto-injector?” or “What CAN you even eat?” Sometimes it seems discouraging. But it is important to appreciate that being allergic is a part of who you are and that you can embrace it!
When talking to other teens with food allergies, the most common benefits of having allergies were thought to be greater maturity, a stronger sense of independence, and an appreciation for what we do have. Many teens have also made great friendships through meeting other people with allergies. And a lot of teens find that having allergies can give you fun conversation starters and crazy stories to share. It can also be very exciting when you find new foods you can eat or restaurants that are really good at handling your allergies. One teen said the following: “People that have allergies develop the ability to be observant, creative, and diligent while still living a normal life.” Hopefully, by reading this chapter, you’ll be able to think a bit about how allergies have actually had a positive impact on your life.
When things go right
Coming to Terms, by Chelsea
When I was young, I blamed my mom for giving me my allergy and ruining my life. This is harsh, I know. I felt like I could never reach my full potential and be who I wanted to be because my allergy was stopping me from doing it. Sometimes I felt like I didn’t belong because of it. As I got older, I started to realize that it wasn’t anyone’s fault. Having an allergy was just a part of me and it wasn’t necessarily a bad thing. I learned to accept people for their challenges and accept myself for mine. I found that, although an allergy wasn’t something I would wish upon anyone, it is something that I have that I could use to help others—especially those with allergies. I’ve also found that it doesn’t stop you from being who you want to be. Nor does it stop you from following your dreams as long as you want them badly enough.
What’s “Normal” Anyway, by Jazmin
Just like everyone else, I have my times when I think “Why do I have all these life-threatening allergies?” But I have learned that I have them for a reason. I am able to teach people about allergy safety and teach them new things that they might not have known about allergies. My allergies don’t define me. But they are a part of my story and a part of who I am. I am grateful for what my allergies have taught me. I have learned things like compassion and caring towards others. But they have also taught me the realities and potential dangers in life. I have modified many recipes that often taste better (so I hear) than the originals. And I get to be a part of an amazing team of youth (I am a member of Food Allergy