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Canada’s Youth Advisory Panel) that provides information to people all across the country. Some days are a struggle. But my allergies do not get me down. In fact, they do the opposite as they make me unique and different. Who wants to be normal anyway?
Quick Tip - Try to think of three ways in which having allergies have actually made a positive impact upon your life. While having allergies is a nuisance, it’s important to appreciate that there are actually some benefits.
When things go wrong
Keeping Things in Perspective, by Talia
I remember going to the children’s hospital when I was younger to get allergy tests. Because I have so many different food allergies, I would get tested pretty often to see if I outgrew any or developed new ones. Although my mom tried to make the best out of the trips by buying me stuffed animals each time, I still hated it. I would get pricked and prodded, turn red and itchy, and then inevitably learn that I was still allergic to everything.
One day, after a particularly itchy appointment, I was in a sour mood. I was sulking and generally acting like a brat while my mom tried to soothe me. We were in the elevator on our way to leave the hospital when a little boy got on. His head was severely deformed and he looked pale and thin. I had to stop myself from staring. I realized that he was probably going through something much worse than I was. Although I didn’t know what was wrong with him, I could tell it was serious.
Seeing that boy really put things in perspective for me. Having food allergies can be tough sometimes. But, by staying vigilant and safe, I can lead a normal and happy life. Allergies can suck sometimes. But they don’t define who we are. It’s important to concentrate on all the great things that we have in our lives as opposed to all of the negative things that can arise. Whenever I’m feeling down, I remind myself that there are people who have it much worse than I do and to be thankful for the amazing friends and family I’ve been blessed with to help me along the way.
Staying Positive isn’t Easy, by Erika
I have been to many conferences, retreats, and camps. I always try to look on the bright side of my allergies. Having spent so much time away, I have learned to deal with my food allergies and have accepted that there will be meals or even activities that may make me feel left out or isolated. There are, however, always ways to change that. I have always tried to look on the bright side by telling myself that having food allergies has made me a more confident person. I have learned to speak up and be more responsible due to having to manage them and stay safe.