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student PROFILE



                                 Ming-Lun Wu

                                 NATIONAL CHENGCHI UNIVERSITY, TAIPEI,
                                 TAIWAN (GRADUATE); UNIVERSITY OF DENVER, COLORADO

                                 About me:                     When I arrived in Boston for a study-abroad experience, I began
                                 I  grew  up  in  Taiwan.  After  com-  looking for opportunities to work on my language skills. I joined
                                 pleting high school and my under-  a Toastmasters club and an English training club that focused on
                                 graduate  degree  in  Taiwan,  I   leadership skills and public speaking. In the summer, I went to a
         traveled to Boston, Massachusetts, for a summer ESL program and,   Boston-based  language  school.  Besides  improving  my  language
         later  to  Denver,  Colorado,  for  graduate  school.  I’m  currently   skills, experiences like applying for my visa, finding a host family,
         attending the University of Denver and am working on my mas-  and scheduling trips around Boston helped me gain independence
         ter’s degree in marketing.                          and confidence in a strange place.
                                                               I had to test both my language skills and my independence to
         What I focus on:                                    achieve my goal and succeed in the United States.

         Growing up in Taiwan, I had a dream of experiencing education in
         the United States. To me, American schools seemed more open-  What will help me in the workplace:
         minded than the schools I attended in Taiwan. That dream became   Even though knowing the big picture is essential, understanding
         my goal and I quickly started to pay attention to any information   every baby step necessary to accomplish a vision is vital. And hav-
         related to studying abroad. When I received a chance to make that   ing the hands-on plan for moving toward that vision, little by little,
         dream a reality, I jumped at it. However, even though I had my   is absolutely essential.
         chance,  I  knew  I  needed  to  improve  my  English  immensely  if  I
         wanted to succeed.









                                   Time and Goal Management = Stress Management
                                   Here’s the good news: Every goal-setting and time-management strategy you are read-
                                   ing in this chapter contributes to your ability to cope with stress. Remember that stress
                                   refers to how you react to pressure. When you make choices that reduce pressure, you
                                   have less to react to.
                                      In this chapter you have explored stressbusters such as how to:

                                    ■  Set productive, realistic goals based on what is important to you
                                    ■  Break your goals into manageable tasks
                                    ■  Make choices that take who you are as a time manager into account
                                    ■  Create and follow a schedule that helps you gets tasks done and get to places on time
                                    ■  Address your time traps by controlling distracting aspects of your environment
                                      When you feel panic coming on, try to resist the urge to escape into a fun activity
                                   and forget what’s causing you pressure. Instead, think: “How can I make a tradeoff
                                   that reduces the pressure? What task can I take care of?” Goal-setting and time-
                                   management skills are likely to bring you a more significant sense of calm and confi-
                                   dence than a night out partying. Save the night out for when the responsibilities are
                                   checked off and you can truly enjoy the rewards of effective self-management.


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