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workplace may prevent others from doing their work, sabotage a project, or even lose
               a promotion or a job because of it.
                   If procrastination can cause such major issues, why do it? One reason people
               procrastinate is to avoid the truth about what they can achieve. “As long as you pro-
               crastinate, you never have to confront the real limits of your ability, whatever those
               limits are,”  say procrastination experts Jane B. Burka and Lenora Yuen, authors of
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               Procrastination: Why You Do It and What to Do About It. A fixed mindset is another
               factor, because it naturally leads to procrastination. A person with a fixed mindset
               thinks, “I can’t do it, so what’s the point of trying?”
                   Here are some strategies that can help you avoid procrastination and its negative
               effects.
                 ■  Analyze the effects. What reward will remain out of reach if you continue to put
                   off a task? Chances are you will benefit more in the long term by facing the task
                   head-on.
                 ■  Set reasonable goals. Because unreasonable goals can immobilize, take manageable
                   risks. If you concentrate on achieving one small step at a time, the task becomes
                   less burdensome.
                 ■  Get started whether you “feel like it” or not. Break the paralysis of doing  nothing by
                   doing something—anything. Most people, once they start, find it easier to continue.
                 ■  Ask for help. Once you identify what’s holding you up, find someone to help
                   you face the task. Another person may come up with an innovative method to
                   get you moving again.
                 ■  Don’t expect perfection. People learn by approaching mistakes with a growth
                   mindset. Richard Sheridan, President of Menlo Innovations, fosters a culture of
                   exploration by telling his employees to “make mistakes faster.” 6
                 ■  Acknowledge progress. When you accomplish a task, celebrate with whatever feels
                   like fun to you.


               Set Effective Limits
               Many people find it challenging to resist the pull of relaxing and fun activities such as
               video games, YouTube surfing, and socializing virtually or in person. However, the fun
               stuff can run away with your time, preventing you from taking care of responsibilities                   Values, Goals, and Time
               and ultimately causing serious problems. Because technology is so much a part of
               modern life, it can seem risky to limit your exposure to it. However, controlling when
               and for how long you interface with technology will earn you the reward of its bene-
               fits minus the suffering from its drawbacks.
                   There is a saying that goes, “The river needs banks to flow.”
               Within  those  banks—the  reasonable  limits  that  you  set  on
               activities that tend to eat up time—you can be the thriving,
               healthy river, flowing toward the goals that are most important
               to you. Without the banks, and without the limits, you (the
               river) can spill out all over, losing the power to head in any
               single direction.
                   How can you set limits that will empower you and provide
               balance? Consider the following:

                 ■  Know what distracts you. Be honest with yourself about
                   what draws your attention and drains your time—chatting
                   or texting on your cell phone, watching reality TV, visiting
                   Facebook, managing your Twitter account, and so on.
                 ■  Set boundaries. Determine when, and for how long, you can
                   perform these activities without jeopardizing your studies.
                   Then schedule them with built-in boundaries: “I will spend

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