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Sefer Chafetz Chayim  VOL-4  5        םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Rechilut            תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Beit  -  Halachah 2              ב הכלה -  ב ללכ


 told this speaker could be interpreted in two different ways, if the    רוּבּדּה םִא וּלִּפאו .ינוגּ לכבּ רפּסל רוּסא ןכּ םגּ )תוּליִכרְ קבא
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 speaker  conveys  Plony’s  remarks  in  a  framework  that  becomes
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 apparent  (2)  as  degradation,  that  Plony  specifically  intended    ינְשׁ  וֹל  שׁי  ,וילע  ינוֹלְפּ  רמאֶשּׁ  המ  ,וֹל  רפּסְמֶּשׁ  וֹלֶּשׁ
 to demean the “victim,” then of course it would be forbidden to    ןוֹשׁארִה תנוּכֶּשׁ ,חכוּמדּ ןפֹאבּ )ב( הּרְָמוֹא אוּה םִא ,םיִנָפּ
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 convey those remarks in any circumstance.  Even if the speaker
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 conveys Plony’s remarks in the context that they lean towards the    אוּה םִא וּלִּפאו ,ינוגּ לכבּ רוּסא יאדּובּ ,וֹתוֹנּגל הָתיה
 other way of understanding them (meaning, that they lean towards    שׁיֶּשׁ רחאה שׁוּרפּכּ רֵתוֹי הֶטוֹנדּ ןינִעבּ ,וֹנוֹשׁלִּמ הז איִצוֹמ
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 an interpretation that is not denigrating) and that there was no intent
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 to demean the listener, nevertheless if the speaker knows the mindset    יִפּ לע ףא ,וֹתוֹנּגל הָתיה אלֹ ןוֹשׁארִה תנוּכֶּשׁ ,וירָבדְִבּ
 of the listener (3) (the “victim”), that he is contentious (meaning,
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 that the “victim” is constantly forming harsh opinions of people,    שׁיִא אוּהֶשׁ ,ינֵשּׁה הז לֶשׁ וֹעבִט תא ריִכּמ אוּה םִא )ג( ןֵכ
 never giving them the benefit of the doubt and whatever people    המ לכו ,דיִמָתּ בוֹח ףכל וֹרבח תא ןדּ אוּהֶשׁ ,וּניה( ןגרְנ
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 do or say about him, he says was done only to antagonize him,
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 as Rabbeinu Yonah writes in the 3  sha’ar of Shaare Teshuvah in    וֹל דגּנְתִהל קרַ ןוִּכֶּשׁ רֵמוֹא אוּה ,רבּדְַמ וֹא ,הֶשׂוֹע וֹרבחֶשּׁ
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 section # 231), or if there was some slight enmity between them    שׁיֶּשׁ וֹא ,)הנוֹי וּנבּרַל הבוּשְׁתּ ירֲֵעַשׁבּ בַתכֶּשׁ וֹמכּ ,הזבּ
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 and this “victim” needs only the flimsiest of excuses to libel Plony,
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 (regarding this kind of personality, this “victim”) it is forbidden (to    ךְירִצ וֹניא הזכּ שׁיִאו ,רבכִּמ םהיניבּ האנִשׂ תצקְ הז דבל
 convey to him any form of gossip) in any and all circumstances.  .ינוגּ לכבּ רוּסא ,וֹרבח לע הליִלֲע אֹצְמִל קרַ
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 (RK2/2/1)-(2)..becomes  apparent:  All  this  was  explained  above
 in the first section of this sefer (in the Laws of Esurei Lashon Hara), in    קלחב ליעל ונראיב הז לכ .'וכו חכומד ןפואב )ב(
 the cited Be’er Mayim Chayim, in the second notation.  Please see that
 reference and the following Hagahah.  .*ש"יע 'ב תואב ל"נה ח"מבב 'א
 (RK2/2/2)-(3)..knows the mindset of this listener: This obviously    ליעל ונבתכש הממ טושפ אוה .ריכמ אוה םא )ג(
 follows from what I wrote above (in the Laws of Rechilut) in the 1  Kelal,
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 the 3  halacha, that “even if the gossip himself is etc…even so since the    'וכו ומצעב לכורה םג םא וליפאד ג"ס 'א ללכב
 remarks he conveyed caused the listener to hate Plony, etc.” (Please see    כ"א ש"יע 'וכו האנש סנכיש םרוג הזד ןויכ ה"פא
 that reference).  That being so, the law here is the same as there.   But
 even besides this, the speaker is placing a “stumbling block ” (meaning,    ינפל  לושכמ  ןתונ  אוה  אלה  ה"אלבו  .אכה  ה"ה
 he is creating a basis for the listener to also commit a sin) in front of this    טפשת קדצב לע רבעיש ועייסמו הזה רועה ןגרנה
 “blind,” angry, contentious person and is actually helping him to violate
 the Torah’s Lav of judging a fellow Jew favorably etc., as well as a number    ח"מבב 'ב ללכ 'א קלחב 'יעו .תונוע המכ דועו 'וכו
 of other sins.  Please reference the first section of this sefer (in the Laws of    שיא ןינעל אתלת יפאד ןיד םש ונראיבש 'ב תוא
 Esurei Lashon Hara), the 2  Kelal in the 2  notation of the Be’er Mayim
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 Chayim where we explained there the law of  “in the presence of three   .ןגרנ ונניאש
 people” in the context of  a fellow Jew who is not contentious.
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