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Sefer Chafetz Chayim                  םייח ץפח רפס
 Hilchot Esurei Rechilut            תוליכר ירוסיא תוכלה
 Kelal Alef  -  Halachah 11             ד הכלה -  ב ללכ


 (to camouflage the speaker’s real intent), that the speaker knows   םייח םימ ראב
 that once “Plony” did something inappropriate to this listener or
 demeaned him and there was conflict between them and now this    ללכ  ר"השל  תוכלהב  ליעל  ןייע  .'וכו רפיס )ד(
 speaker wants to re-ignite this old conflict between “Plony” and the
 listener, but the speaker does not want the “listener” to be aware of    ם"בשרש  ףאש  ונארה  םש  'ו  ק"סב  ח"מבב  'ב
 what he is actually doing.  And so this speaker begins smooth-talking    שוריפה הזל כ"ג וזמרו )ט"ל ףד( ב"בב ןכ שריפ
 the listener and seemingly, casually mentions the bad episode that    םינורחאה לודג ל"שרהמה אלה ,םינושארהמ הברה
 the listener experienced as though the remark was totally innocent
 and that he was not even aware of it.  And because the speaker made    תופסותהו ג"מסהו מ"רהד םושמ רוסיאל הזב םיכסה
 those remarks, the listener recalls the episode and the “bad” that    כ"ע אוה אתיירואד רוסיאד טרפבו ,הז לע ןיקלוח
 “Plony” had done to him. These remarks and everything else like    ה"הגהב םש ונבתכש המב ןייעו .הזב לקהל רוסא
 them are absolutely forbidden.
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                       בלב האנש תולעהל םורגיש רבד לכ ה"ה .תונג )ה(

                                    .ל"נכו ורבח לע דחא
 Be’er Mayim Chayim
 (RK1/10/1)-(19)  ..  using  a  trick:  This  law  originates  with  the    תולגל ןיוכתמ וניא םאו .ותולגל ןיוכתמ םא )ו(
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 Rambam in Hilchot De’Aut, the 7  perek, the 4  halacha, in his discussion    ףיעסמ 'ב ללכב 'א קלחב ליעל וניד ונראיב רבכ
 of someone speaking Lashon Hara surreptitiously etc, or that “these are
 the doings of so-and-so.”  Here I expressed that same idea in the context   .ש"יע הלעמו 'ג
 of Rechilut.  I have already written several times, that which the Rambam
 expressed in the context of Lashon Hara also applies to Rechilut.
                                        םייחה רוקמ

                  קסֵעה ןוֹדּנבּ קלַּתּסִהל הצרָ דחא ףָתּשׁ םִא ,הז יִפלוּ .ד
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                  ףוֹסּבלוּ ,וֹמִּע וּפְתַּתְּשׁי םירִחאֶשׁ ,בַשׁח יִכּ ,וֹפָתּשִּׁמ וֹלֶּשׁ
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 the esur of Rechilut if the speaker conveys what “Plony” said or    ,)וֹלֶּשׁ ךְוּדִּשּׁהֵמ ןָתחה אנוגּ יאהכִבּ ןכו( וֹדיבּ הָתלע אלֹ
 did to the listener verbally or in written form (20).  It is also one    רבכדּ ףא ,וֹלֶּשׁ ןוֹשׁארִה ףָתּשּׁהל הז רבדּ תוֹלּגל רוּסא )ז(
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 and the same (it is Rechilut) if the speaker tells the listener that
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 “Plony” degraded him or that “Plony” degraded his merchandise    וּנבַתכֶּשׁ  וֹמכוּ  ,רֵתוֹי  וֹא  אָתלְתּ  יפּאבּ  הז  רבדּ  עמְשׁנ
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 (as I explained above in the context of Lashon Hara in the 1  Kelal,    רבדּ לע וֹפָתּשׁ לע וֹבִּלבּ הּל טקֹני יאדּובדּ ,'ג ףיִעסבּ
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 the 8  halacha, and the 5  Kelal, the 7  halacha) since in either
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 event it would result in the listener hating “Plony.”   םיִטְפוֹשׁ( חָתְּפיבּ בוּתכֶּשׁ וֹמכוּ ,וֹתִּאֵמ קלַּתּסִהל הצרֶָשׁ ,הז
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                  ןפוּ ,"םכל רצ רֶשׁאכּ הָתּע ילא םֶתאבּ עוּדּמוּ" :)'ז א"י
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