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Mekor Hachayim                                 Sefer Chafetz Chayim
                                           Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara

                                                          Kelal Dalet

                    providing they would believe his sole testimony with the same
                    authority as two witnesses (28). It is permissible for his rebbe to
                    hate this person (the adulterer) and to distance himself from him
                    until the matter is resolved and this person did appropriate Teshuvah.
                    But it is forbidden for this rebbe to relate this story to others since
                    that would be no better than if he himself witnessed this person’s
                    actions and could not disclose it to anyone else because he was
                    only a solitary witness, as I discussed prior in the 4th halacha of this
                    Kelal.

                    K4/6. It further appears to me that a person who will likely repeat

                    the same foolish mistake can be reported to his rebbe even if that
                    rebbe is not particularly discrete and the disclosure will possibly
                    become public knowledge. But if the rebbe is an authoritative
                    person whose words of rebuke will be accepted by this transgressor
                    as a reprimand to stop his foolishness, then it is likely that one can
                    also approach his rebbe directly with this story since his motivation
                    is to help this person stop his sinning and not to humiliate him.

                    Now to resume the prior subject.

                    Even if two witnesses watched this person commit a sin, and this
                    person is likely to repeat this sin, nevertheless the disclosure can
                    only be made to the city’s judicial authorities and to no one else
                    because in actuality these two witnesses saw this person commit
                    a sin only once. Maybe his Yetzer Hara got the better of him this
                    one time but afterwards he was regretful and became saddened
                    and embittered because of what he had done and now did a sincere
                    Teshuvah. Accordingly this person is still categorized as “your
                    fellow Jew” (and is entitled to the benefit of the doubt as a Torah
                    imperative).

                      Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 193

                    K4/7. All of these laws discussed until this point relate specifically

                    to someone who becomes remorseful after committing a sin. But if

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