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Mekor Hachayim                                 Sefer Chafetz Chayim
                                           Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara

                                                           Kelal Heh

                    who learn Torah and in so doing the speaker gains a reputation for
                    shaming Torah Scholars. Regarding this person, Chazal have taught
                    (Gemara Shabbat 119b) that there is no remedy for the affliction
                    that will befall this speaker. Because of his remarks, G‑d forbid,
                    the upholding of the Torah will greatly diminish. And if at some
                    point this Rav warns someone about a sin they are about to commit,
                    they will pay no attention to him because word of this victim (Rav)
                    would have been spread by this speaker, that the Rav was not a
                    Chacham.

                      Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 263

                    K5/3. My brother, let me ask you another question regarding

                    the seduction of a person by his Yetzer Hara to make him believe
                    these remarks are not Lashon Hara, (i.e., the speaker rationalizes
                    to himself that making remarks about someone else that demeans
                    his intelligence is not Lashon Hara), think about it in the context of
                    yourself. If someone told you clearly that someone else said you
                    were not smart, (or that you have some other character deficiency),
                    how great would your complaint be against the person who made
                    those remarks. You would think to yourself, “What did he see in
                    me to lead him to make those remarks and say I was stupid? This
                    speaker is someone with an evil disposition and an habitual speaker
                    of Lashon Hara whose only intention is to denigrate and trivialize
                    a fellow Jew.” Yet when you do this, when you talk about your
                    fellow Jew who in many respects is a better person than you in
                    his service to G‑d and to society, you think the remarks are not at
                    all sinful? See how terrible a sin is this seduction! And truthfully
                    when one examines this subject carefully (“Sholelut Ha’Maalot” \
                    character weaknesses) he will find in this specific style of speech
                    more aspects of Lashon Hara that are many times worse than other
                    more routine forms of Lashon Hara.

                    One (worse) aspect of this Lashon Hara is from the perspective
                    of the speaker, namely, that in other topics when a person speaks
                    about his fellow Jew who violated an esur, either in his relationship
                    with G‑d or in an interpersonal relationship, often the speaker’s

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