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Mekor Hachayim                                 Sefer Chafetz Chayim
                                           Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara

                                                           Kelal Vav

                      Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 379

                    K6/11. There are many ways that people make mistakes regarding

                    (understanding and applying) the rule that one is permitted to
                    suspect that the Lashon Hara they heard is true, and it is appropriate
                    to elaborate extensively on this subject. But this is not the place
                    for it, as I will write about it, with G‑d’s help, in the last Kelal.
                    However, the rule to follow in in this regard is that when Chazal
                    said one may suspect the possibility that the Lashon Hara heard
                    is true, this applies only to a situation where one needs to protect
                    oneself from the consequences of what he hears. But G‑d forbid, to
                    be proactive and do something to him or to cause him13 any harm
                    or humiliation (30), either significant or not significant, even if
                    the Lashon Hara came from a single reliable witness who gave his
                    testimony in Beit Din as such testimony can only be used to compel
                    a defendant to swear an oath, and more than this, even to merely
                    hate him privately, secretly (31) in the innermost recesses of one’s
                    heart is also forbidden by the Torah. And obviously a person can
                    absolutely not attempt to free himself from his obligations to the
                    victim (32) because of the Lashon Hara spoken about him.

                      Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 391

                    K6/12. But if someone did violate this Lav and listened to Lashon

                    Hara and believed what he heard, whether it involved a disgraceful
                    act between man and G‑d or between man and his fellow man,
                    it can be remedied by resolving (33) to remove it from his heart
                    and not believe it. (In doing Teshuvah) He must further resolve
                    to never again believe the Lashon Hara about another Jew and
                    to make a vidduy \ confession of this sin. In doing this, he will
                    have remedied all of the Laveen and Aseen that he transgressed in
                    accepting the Lashon Hara he heard as truth, as I explained above
                    in the Introduction, as long as he has not repeated what he heard to
                    anyone else (34).

                     13	 … the person who is the subject of the Lashon Hara .

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