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Sefer Chafetz Chayim
                              Hilchot Esurei Lashon Hara
                                      Kelal Zayin


             forbidden to accept these remarks as truth and conclude an opinion
             and degrade a fellow Jew.  Even in the absence of these conditions,
             in any event one must be careful (18) not to believe this speaker’s
             (“incidentally”) demeaning comments about a fellow Jew.  Further,
             it is absolutely forbidden to give these remarks any credibility and
             to repeat them to others (19) or to humiliate the victim (20) based on
             what was heard.  Further, it is absolutely obvious that it is forbidden
             to cause a financial loss to the victim (21) or to hurt him in any way,
             G‑d forbid, which most certainly would be forbidden by the Torah.

             Be'er Mayim Chayim on page 159

             K7/10.    If  there  is  circumstantial  evidence  (22)   that  tends  to
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             support the (Lashon Hara) comments made about the “victim” as
             being true, then the law is as follows:  Even if the comments are
             true, if it is possible to give him the benefit of a doubt and judge
             the “victim” favorably (23) or if the comments involve character
             flaws or any of the other circumstances that I discussed above in
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             the    halacha of this Kelal, then any circumstantial evidence is
             irrelevant  and  we  are  obligated  to  judge  him  favorably  because
             he is an average person (24), in order that he should not become
             degraded in society’s esteem as was mentioned above.  But if it is an
      Mekor Hachayim  to believe the comments and accept them as truth (25).  (Please see                  The Chafetz Chayim is seated at the entranceway.
             action for which there is no possibility of extending the benefit of a
             doubt to the person who committed that action, then it is permitted

             the following Hagahah).





                 םירכנה םירבד		are	literally	“recognizeable	facts.”	In	this	context	 םירכנה םירבד		are

                 weak	circumstantial	facts	or	indications	that	tend	to	corroborate	the	Lashon
                 Hara	told	to	a	listener.		The	םירכנה םירבד	by	themselves	are	not	substantial
                 enough	to	prompt	the	listener	to	form	a	conclusion,	but	when	coupled	with
                 the	 Lashon	 Hara	 they	 give	 the	 speaker’s	 report	 credence	 and	 will	 more
                 decisively	guide	the	listener	to	a	conclusion.		For	example,	the	unkempt	and
                 bedraggled	appearance	of	Mephiboshet	as	he	presented	himself	in	audience
                 before	 David	 HaMelech	 seemed	 to	 bear	 out	 the	 Lashon	 Hara	 reported	 to
                 him	by	Tzevah,	namely	that	his	master	Mephiboshet	was	unhappy	that	David
                 HaMelech	emerged	from	the	war	with	Avshalom	as	undisputed	king	of	Israel.



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