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                                                                aunty,  mentor,  close-friend,  etc.  To  many  here  at
                                                                home in Ghana, she was popularly known as “Aunty
                                                                Bee  The  Hairdresser.”  Mom  was  born  in  Takoradi,
                                                                Ghana.

                                                                Mom is survived by four children Nelly Duker (Grace
                                                                Wallace  USA-  Oldest),  Sally  Duker  (Mrs.  Debora
                                                                Anane  USA  -  Second),  Georgina  Duker  (Mrs.  Joy
                                                                Abidoye – Third), and Mr.   Emmanuel Duker – Last
                                                                born and her eight grandchildren in order (Joshua,
                                                                Abigail, Isabell, Jonathan, David, Eli, Iiam, Malika and
                                                                baby Isla).  Her role as mother and grandmother in
                                                                this  family  was  her  pride  of  joy  and  the  most
                                                                important thing to her. Mom showed pride of her
                                                                family every chance she got, either through social
                                                                media or when talking to her friends on the phone or
                                                                in-person. For example, whenever she is on a call
                                                                with any of her friends and any of us happens to be
                                                                around, she will just hand us the phone and beckon
                                                                us as usual “here, say something”, when most of the
                                                                 me we will have NO knowledge who's on the other
                                                                side  of  the  phone  call  un l  we  say  hello.  Her
                                                                grandchildren meant everything to her in life. She
                                                                made all necessary arrangements to ensure she and
                                                                Dad  a ended  their  grandchildren’s  milestone
                                                                celebra ons,  including  birthdays,  gradua ons,
           We  would  like  to  first  extend  our  gra tude  to  all   school  presenta ons  and  she  brought  the  whole
           rela ves,  friends  and  a endees  who  have  come   world with her in her traveling bag, which some mes
           today  to  honor  our  Mom.  We  are  gathered  here   included (food, clothes, toys, etc.). Mom knew all her
           today  in  memory  of  our  mother  Beatrice  Afua   children  and  grandchildren’s  favorite  foods;  she
           Dadson,  a  person  we  have  all  come  to  love  and   would cook all these foods, freeze them and carry
           cherish; to share both our joy in the gi  that her life   them in her luggage and when we say “we don't need
           was to us and the pain that her passing has brought.   these ”, she would respond with “yes you do ”. Mom
           The  number  of  people  who  have  commi ed  to     you were so right, being with her family was what
           a ending and come from different places including     Afua  enjoyed  the  most  of  all.  We  have  countless
           overseas, villages, ci es, to pay their last respects is a   home videos and pictures of her dancing with her
           tes mony of the lives she personally touched. May    grandchildren, dad, laughing, cooking, encouraging
           we lessen the pain and remember more of her joy.     etc.

           Mom passed away unexpectedly on Tuesday, March       If we were to ask you, what comes to mind when you
           22 2022 in Ghana and we wish we had more  me to      think about our mom,  what will you share? To us, she
           spend with her together. While we know she is at     was our protector, comforter, encourager, provider,
           peace and that her struggles are at an end, there is   the list con nues. Mom was a nurturer. When we
           s ll pain and sadness in our hearts. Even though she   lived here, in Ghana she would take in anyone who
           is gone, she le  us a great legacy of her love and   was struggling in life, have the person live with us,
           perseverance in the way she touched our lives and    and teach them a trade to help them have a be er
           the lives of the people she encountered.             life. And when we moved to the US, her profession
                                                                was  a  “Caretaker”  either  in  Hospitals,  or  nursing
           Our mom has been loved and known by many, in         homes, and or private homes. Mom cared for all her
           different  roles  –  sister,  wife,  mom,  grandmother,   pa ents, just like taking care of her own family. She
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