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IN THE NEWS

MEANING OF COINS ON MILITARY GRAVES

Coins placed on graves may convey a variety of messages, but today they often have a military significance.
The tradition of leaving coins on the gravestones of fallen military men and women dates back to the Roman
Empire. In America, the practice became common during the Vietnam War. Because of the extreme political
divide over the war, leaving a coin was seen as a quiet indication that the grave was visited. Different coins
carried a different significance.

Leaving a penny at the grave simply means that you visited. The person leaving the coin is paying honor to
their service and to their family. It is the equivalent of saying, "Thank you for your service."

Leaving the nickle at the grave shows a slightly stronger connection to the deceased, with some
seeing the association with the branch of the military all the way to serving at the same boot camp.

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When leaving a dime is the choice, it indicates a more personal connection. Leaving a dime means you
served together in some capacity—the deceased was a comrade

The gift of a quarter carries the deepest significance. It represents that the leaver was actually with
the deceased when he or she died.

What Happens to Coins Left on Graves? Coins left on the grave usually go for a good purpose. Some of the
coins are used for the upkeep of the cemetery and gravestones. Other portions of the money go to help pay the
burial costs for veterans whose finances are limited. Ultimately, the coins all go to pay respects to the families
of individuals who have given their life in service for the country.

Paying Respects When you see coins on a grave, reflect first on the life that was selflessly given. Remember
the long line of traditions that provide the foundation for honor and respect for the deceased. The handful of
pocket change emphasizes to all the incredible value of life.

Reference:
May, Tom. "Behind the Tradition of Coins on Graves". Dying. 1 LoveToKnow. Archived from the original on 5 December 2021.