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constructed as a monument enclosing the                   and coco-matting at the grave site,
                                                                                                                                 interment space or burial chamber of a                    leveling, tamping, re-grading and
                                                                                                                                 deceased person or people. A mausoleum                    sodding the grave site and leveling
                                                                                                                                 may be considered a type of tomb or the                   and re-sodding the grave if the earth
                                                                                                                                 tomb may be considered to be within the                   settles.
                                                                                                                                 mausoleum. The most famous mausoleum
                                                                                                                                 is the Taj Mahal in India.                                Can we dig our own grave to avoid
                                                                                                                                                                                           the charge for opening and closing?
                                                                                                                                 Columbarium: Columbarium walls are                        The  actual opening  and closing  of
                                                                                                                                 generally reserved for cremated remains.                  the grave is just one component of
                                                                                                                                 While  cremated  remains  can  be  kept  at               the  opening and closing  fee.  Due
                                                                                                                                 home by families or scattered somewhere                   to safety issues which arise around
                                                                                                                                 significant to the deceased, a columbarium                the use of machinery on cemetery
                                                                                                                                 provides  friends  and  family  a  place  to              property and the protection of other
                                                                                                                                 come to mourn and visit. Columbarium                      gravesites, the actual opening and
                                                                                                                                 walls do not take up a lot of space and it                closing of the grave is conducted by
                                                                                                                                 is a cheaper alternative to a burial plot.                cemetery grounds personnel only.

                                                                                                                                 Natural cemeteries: Natural cemeteries,                   Why is having a place to visit so
                                                                                                                                 also known as eco-cemeteries or green                     important?
        •  Selecting burial or cremation                          in a crypt inside a mausoleum (above                           cemeteries is a new style of cemetery                     To      remember         and       to     be
        •  Choosing funeral products                              ground burial). Family or religious                            set aside for natural burials. Natural                    remembered are natural human
        •  Arranging a cemetery plot                              traditions are often a factor for                              burials are motivated by the desire to                    needs. A permanent memorial in a
        •  Preparing an obituary notice                           choosing burial. Decisions need to be                          be environmentally conscience, although                   cemetery provides a focal point for
        •  Scheduling transportation                              made on whether the body needs to                              natural burials can be performed at any                   remembrance         and     memorializing
            arrangements                                          be embalmed, what kind of casket to                            type of cemetery, they are usually done                   the  deceased. Throughout  human
                                                                  use, what cemetery to use and what                             in a natural woodland area. Conventional                  history, memorialization of the dead
        A funeral director will guide you                         to put on the gravestone.                                      markings such as headstones are generally                 has been a key component of almost
        through  all  these  steps,  using  your                                                                                 replaced with a tree or a bush or a                       every culture. Psychologists say
        wants, needs and desires as a                             Cemetery types                                                 placement of a natural rock.                              that remembrance practices, from
        foundation to create a memorable                          Monumental cemetery: A monumental                                                                                        the funeral or memorial service to
        funeral  for  your  loved  one.  From                     cemetery is the traditional style of                                                                                     permanent memorialization, serve
        here the funeral services can be                          cemetery where headstones or other                             Burial FAQ’s                                              an important emotional function
        personalized. Did your loved one have                     monuments made of marble or granite                                                                                      for survivors by helping them bring
        a favorite sports team? What was their                    rise vertically above the ground.                              What is opening and closing and why is it                 closure and allowing the healing
        favorite type of music? What activity                     There are countless different types of                         so expensive?                                             process to begin. Providing a
        was your loved one known best for?                        designs for headstones, ranging from                           Opening and closing fees can include up to                permanent  resting  place  for  the
        Recalling fond memories assists with                      very simple to large and complex.                              and beyond 50 separate services provided                  deceased is a dignified treatment for
        the grieving process and will help                                                                                       by the cemetery. Typically, the opening and               a loved one’s mortal remains, which
        honor the life of your loved one.                         Lawn cemetery: A lawn cemetery is                              closing fee includes administration and                   fulfills  the  natural  human  desire  for
                                                                  where each grave is marked with a                              permanent record keeping (determining                     memorialization.
                                                                                                                                 ownership,  obtaining  permission  and  the
        Burial Services                                           small  commemorative  plaque  that is                          completion of other documentation which                   What happens when a cemetery runs
                                                                  placed horizontally at the head of the
        Traditionally, a burial service involves                  grave at ground-level. Families can                            may be required, entering the interment                   out of land?
        a visitation, followed by a funeral                       still be involved in the design and the                        particulars in the interment register,                    When a cemetery runs out of land,
        service in a church, or other place                       information contained on the plaque,                           maintaining all legal files);  opening  and               it will continue to operate and serve
        of  worship.  The  casket  is  typically                  however in most cases the plaques                              closing the grave (locating the grave and                 the community. Most cemeteries have
        present at both these events, and it                      are a standard design.                                         laying out the boundaries, excavating and                 crematoriums, and some historic
        is your decision on whether to have                                                                                      filling the interment space); installation and            cemeteries even offer guided tours.
        the casket open or not.  You have the                     Mausoleum: A mausoleum is an                                   removal of the lowering device; placement
        option of having the remains interred                     external free-standing building                                and removal of artificial grass dressing
        (earth burial), or it may be entombed





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