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provided by the cemetery. Typically,                     Why is having a place to visit so
         the  opening  and  closing  fee  includes                important?
         administration  and  permanent  record                   To  remember  and  to  be  remembered
         keeping        (determining        ownership,            are natural human needs. A permanent
         obtaining permission and the completion                  memorial in a cemetery provides a focal
         of other documentation which may                         point for remembrance and memorializing
         be required, entering the interment                      the deceased. Throughout human history,
         particulars in the interment register,                   memorialization of the dead has been a
         maintaining all legal files); opening and                key component of almost every culture.
         closing the grave (locating the grave and                Psychologists  say  that  remembrance
         laying out the boundaries, excavating and                practices, from the funeral or  memorial
         filling the interment space); installation               service to permanent memorialization,
         and removal of the lowering device;                      serve an important emotional function
         placement and removal of artificial grass                for survivors by helping them bring
         dressing and coco-matting at the grave                   closure and allowing the healing process
         site, leveling, tamping, re-grading and                  to begin. Providing a permanent resting
         sodding the grave site and leveling and                  place for the deceased is a  dignified
         re-sodding the grave if the earth settles.               treatment for a loved one’s mortal

                                                                  remains, which fulfills the natural human
         Can we dig our own grave to avoid the                    desire for memorialization.
         charge for opening and closing?
         The actual opening and closing of the                    What  happens when  a cemetery  runs
         grave is just one component of the                       out of land?
         opening and closing fee. Due to safety                   When a cemetery runs out of land,
         issues which arise around the use of                     it will continue to operate and serve
         machinery on cemetery property and                       the     community.       Most      cemeteries
         the protection of other gravesites, the                  have crematoriums, and some historic
         actual opening and closing of the grave                  cemeteries even offer guided tours.
         is conducted by cemetery grounds
         personnel only.



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