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Memorial or Tribute                                      •  What music should be played?

         Service                                                  •  What readings would you like to
                                                                      have?
         At a memorial or tribute service, a casket               •  Is there a special poem you’d like
         or urn is usually not present. Otherwise                     shared with the guests?
         similar to a funeral or visitation, a                    •  Are there any special photographs
         memorial service gives family and friends                    or other memorabilia you would like
         a time to come together in your memory                       displayed?
         and celebrate your life.                                 •  Should the décor reflect a particular
                                                                      hobby or interest of yours, such as
                                                                      fishing, gardening or music?
         Graveside Service                                        •  Is there a particular emblem

         As its name implies, a graveside service                     or engraving you want on your
         may be held at the grave site just prior                     headstone or marker?
         to burial of a casket or urn, and usually                •  Should there be refreshments served
         consists of final remarks, prayers or                        or a more elaborate party held after
         memories. The service may occur after                        the service?
         or in place of a funeral service.
                                                                  Cemetery Property
         There’s no one, right way to plan a funeral
         service, we believe that each funeral                    In addition to funeral services and the
         should be as unique and memorable as                     choice  of  burial  or  cremation,  cemetery
         the life it honors.                                      property, or “interment rights,” is another
                                                                  consideration when you’re making final
         When planning your own funeral service                   arrangements, either for yourself in
         in advance,  think about the way you                     advance, or for a loved one.
         want to be remembered. Perhaps you’d
         like a traditional funeral aligned with                  A common misconception that people
         certain religious or ethnic customs. Or, a               often have when they purchase the right
         celebration focusing on great memories                   of  interment  in  a  cemetery  is  that  they
         made with family and friends may be your                 have purchased the land itself, when in
         preference. Maybe it’s a combination                     fact what they have really purchased is
         of both. You can have one service, or                    the right to be interred (also referred
         several, to honor your life.                             to as buried, entombed, enniched or
                                                                  placed) on or in that particular piece of
         Regardless of the service or services you                property.
         choose to include in your funeral plan,
         you can personalize them in almost                       Burial
         any  way  imaginable.  For  example,  just
         consider the following questions:                        Most people are familiar with the concept
                                                                  of burial, or “interment,” but may not be
         •  Where should the funeral be held? At                  aware of the variety of options that are
             your place of worship? At the funeral                often available. Many cemeteries offer
             home?                                                one or more of the following:
         •  Who should officiate the service?
         •  Will your service adhere to the                       •  Ground Burial: burial of the casket
             traditions of your faith or culture?                     below ground. A “vault” or “outer
         •  Do you want a eulogy, and who                             burial container” is required at many
             should deliver it?                                       cemeteries.
         •  Would you like an open or closed                      •  Mausoleum, or Community
             casket?                                                  Mausoleum: a large building


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