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television show with funeral scenes • Honor, recognize and celebrate the
may naturally prompt the discussion life of the deceased
with your own loved ones. Talk about • Allow friends and family to say their
what you liked or didn’t like about last good-byes
the services you saw or attended. • Provide closure after the loss of a
• Tell your children or loved ones that loved one
because you care for them so much, • Allow friends to console the family of
you don’t want to burden them with the loved one
difficult decisions when you’re gone.
Tell them you’ve made your own So what is a funeral? In general terms, a
final arrangements, and give them a funeral is a gathering of family and friends
written record of what they are. after the death of a loved one that allows
• Make your funeral and cemetery them the opportunity to mourn, support
plans with us and then wrap a copy each other and pay tribute to the life of
of your contract and wishes in a gift the deceased. It often consists of one or
box, and present it to your children. more of the following components:
• Make it a family affair. Schedule
an appointment with your chosen Burial Plans
funeral home or cemetery provider
and invite your children along When considering final arrangements
to participate in the selection of for yourself or a loved one, one of the
services, funeral merchandise and first decisions you might make is whether
cemetery property. you prefer burial or cremation. This
decision often influences other important
Whether you’re sharing plans for your considerations, such as elements of the
own final arrangements with loved funeral service and type of cemetery
ones, or encouraging loved ones to property.
make and share their plans with you, the
conversation about planning ahead is an Funeral Service
important one that every family should
have. While no one wants to think about A formal or informal ceremony or ritual
their death or the death of a loved one prior to burial, a funeral service often
any sooner than they must, having the provides a sense of closure to family and
conversation in advance alleviates the friends. Although your faith or culture
need for potentially more unpleasant or may dictate some elements of a funeral
difficult conversations in the future. service, you may want to personalize
other elements of the service. At a funeral
Funeral Arrangements service, a casket or urn is present, though
you may choose to have the casket open
Whether you’re planning for yourself or or closed.
for a loved one, the funeral service is
one of the most important elements of Held the night before or immediately
a person’s final arrangements. With the prior to the funeral service, the visitation -
opportunity for great personalization, also called a wake or a viewing - provides
the funeral service can truly reflect the a way for friends and acquaintances to
uniqueness of the life it honors. pay respects and offer condolences to
your family. As with the funeral service,
Regardless of whether you or your loved you may want to decide if you want an
one have opted for burial or for cremation, open or closed casket should one be
the funeral or memorial service fills an present.
important role. It can:
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