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Advice from Rabbi Elozor Menachem Mann Shach zt”l
concerning Shidduchim and Marital harmony

someone else to act stringently, rather one should explain to her Compliments of ד"סב
the severity of the matter.
Mr. and Mrs. Bruce Lilker
6) The wife must be home in the evening when the husband
comes back from Kollel or work, and should greet him joyfully,       
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dressed in presentable and nice clothes.
In honor of
This was said in response to a situation where the wife was
a well-educated, and gave Torah lectures for women in the Yedidya and Frieda Levy
evening hours. Our master Rav Shach replied that a wife must by Dr. and Mrs. Eliyahu Hamaoui M.D.
be home in the evening, even if this causes the cancellation of
the shiur.
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7) The Shabbos table should be organized, accompanied with
Torah thoughts, and songs and praises of the special tunes and Dedicated by
songs for Shabbos, especially those which his wife loves to Mr. and Mrs. Jody Levy
hear. Upon entering the house when returning from the Bais
HaKenesses, one should sing “Sholom Aleichem Malachei תמשנ יוליעל
HaSholom”, as this is a Segulah to bring marital harmony ל״ז הגלוא ןב ןרהא
into the house for the coming week. One should remember
to always praise his wife in regard to the tasty food and the       
beautiful appearance of the table and the house in the honor of
the holy Shabbos. Greetings

Our master Rav Shach related that he once ate on Shabbos in Compliments of
the house of one of the great Mussar personalities, whose wife Mr. and Mrs. Leon Sutton
was unable to cook or bake well. The guests left over part of
their portions, and when his wife was not looking that great
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sage would eat their leftovers in order to make it seem as
though the guests enjoyed the food and ate everything served Compliments of
to them.
Mr. and Mrs. Rephael Attie
During Birchas Hamozon he should say the Berochos out loud,
as this is a Segulah for marital harmony, as well as being a       
wonderous Segulah to be successful in one’s endeavors.
Compliments of
8) The husband should set aside a fixed time to learn with his
wife whatever Torah subject she enjoys. It would be best if Rabbi and Mrs. Moshe Shemtov
they learn together in a sefer which deals with Mussar topics,

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