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3.  The information should be given by the physician or by another   5  If that is so, there is no justification for telling a woman that her fe-                                                                                                                        #
 person whom the patient relies on and feels close to, such as a   tus seems to have Down’s Syndrome or any other blemish, especially
 member of the family or a Rav.  if it is only a suspicion. Therefore, the wise man will not inform the
 4. The information should be limited to that which is essential,   pregnant woman of this. As it says, “the spirit of man maintains his
 and relayed with a positive outlook, providing hope, encourage-  illness” (Mishlei 18:14). This implies that faith, prayer, and good deeds
 ment, and support.  can reverse the bad Heavenly decree to good. Therefore, one must
           give the patient hope.
 5.  One should  promise medical and emotional  support for  the   On the other hand, if one informs him of the bad news, he may
 patient for the duration of the illness.
           die. As it says, (Bereishis 44:30-31) “And now, when I come to your
 In summary: In the case of an advanced disease or disease that   servant, my father …  and when he sees that the lad is not there,
 has spread throughout the body, where there is no possibility of   he will die.” Rashi explains that Yaakov was liable to die because of
 treatment, one should refrain from reporting to the patient. On the   his woes. The Midrash in Bereishis Rabbah (65:9) brings that Yaakov
 other hand, if there is a complicated treatment option using different   Avinu introduced illness to the world, while the King Chizkiyahu
 modalities, then we are in need of the patient’s compliance and un-  introduced healing to the world. He said to Hashem, if You do not
 derstanding. Therefore, we would have to give the patient complete   enable healing, then you “have stood” a sick person on his feet until
 or partial information about his medical condition, with great care.  the day of his death. When someone gets sick and is healed and then                                                                                                                                20818_efi-ab - 20818_park-C_efi-ab | 5 - A | 18-08-20 | 13:46:24 |

 Dr. Menachem Chaim Brayer  gets sick again, this causes him to repent. Perhaps Chizkiyahu’s intent
 Supervising Physician, Geriatric Center, Givat Hashloshah  was that without a possibility of healing, every sick person would be
           frozen into a state of depression and pain until the day of his death,
           like someone convicted to die, who suffers terribly while awaiting
 1   AnsweR  the enactment of his sentence. Hashem thus heeded his request and


 One should appoint a wise and discerning individual in every lab-  brought healing to the world.
 oratory, who will know how to impart information to the patient if   Therefore, we believe that the job of informing the patient should
 there is a possibility of danger. He should do so in a way that will not   be given to a wise man, who will know how to do so properly.
 cause melancholy, depression, or suicide. If the patient has relatives,   
 the lab-representative can use his judgement to decide whether or
 not to tell the patient or only his relatives, or perhaps to give over the
 information only to the family physician.
 There are also ultrasounds done on pregnant women, causing   How to Reveal Painful News
 those who do not abide by the Seven Noahide mitzvos to have an
 abortion performed if the ultrasound reveals blemishes in the fetus.   The following anecdote is related in the Navi regarding Dovid and
 However, “Not like the Egyptian women are the Israelites” (Shemos   Yehonason (Shmuel 1, 20:18):
 1:19). Those who observe the mitzvos of the Creator do not have an
 abortion unless there is a possibility of danger to the mother. If there   “And  Yehonason said to him,  ‘Tomorrow is the New
 is no danger to the mother, then “they let the boys live.” (Shemos 1:17)  Moon, you will be missed because your seat will be emp-




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