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LOCAL Saturday 5 May 2018

Love and Grief

I have personally observed and met many persons
who have relationship issues, could be with parent
or partner or children but there seems to be quite a
widespread experience of some sort of relationship
turbulence. Could be manifesting in different forms
but usually anger and deep sadness turning into de-
pression.

What one may be holding on to is an expectation of
how we should be loved or what love means for us
according to how we perceive love to be, not real-
izing that one is only able to love according to the
level of consciousness that one is in, the mind con-
ditioning that one has accumulated from the past.
So, one may not be able to love us in the way we
desire or expect, maybe the love we need. Can we
accept that the other may not be able to love us in
that way as they can only love us at the level of their
unconsciousness which is conditional, conditioned
by their past.

Loving unconditionally arises from a state of mind Suresh Mirchumal is a spiritual writer. “Well, you can categorize it like that, although I
that is fully conscious of this, and the acceptance don’t call myself one. These thoughts come in effortlessly.” His aim is in a way to reach
becomes the grieving process that eventually ends out to whoever gets inspired or has an eye opening event within them that may tran-
up in deep inner stillness and peace. scend their current state of consciousness. “Or let’s say current emotional state too. If
As long as we have unprocessed emotions within us, one in a thousand benefits, that is already great.” Due to the current world state, lots of
it creates a divide between two persons. struggles and stresses, we seem to lose touch with that inner peace that we long for,
Suresh explains. “I wish to ease that through these small articles or tidbits.” You will find
By recognizing this within the other person is a true his tidbits in Aruba Today from now on, like a sunray of the day. If you wish to make use
form of forgiveness and is the highest form of forgive- of Suresh his services like meditation or just a talk, please email to: Thedimensionofsi-
ness that can heal the relationship. And therefore is lence@gmail.com.
a form of unconditional Love.q