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                                                                      How to cultivate a happier retirement



                                                                      By LIZ WESTON of NerdWal-
                                                                      let
                                                                      Researchers  have  identi-
                                                                      fied several factors besides
                                                                      money that contribute to a
                                                                      happier retirement, includ-
                                                                      ing good health, strong re-
                                                                      lationships  and  a  sense  of
                                                                      purpose.
                                                                      But setbacks are inevitable,
                                                                      in  life  and  in  retirement.
                                                                      Not everyone enjoys good
                                                                      health  and no one enjoys
                                                                      it  forever.  Loved  ones  die
                                                                      or move away. The pursuits
                                                                      you  thought  would  give
                                                                      your life meaning may not,
                                                                      or  may  not  be  possible:
                                                                      Think  of  all  the  activities   This undated file photo provided by NerdWallet shows Liz Weston,
                                                                      and  plans  canceled  be-    a columnist for personal finance website NerdWallet.com.
                                                                      cause of the pandemic.                                                Associated Press
                                                                      Yet many retirees continue
                                                                      to  be  happy  despite  diffi-  your way of viewing a situ-  statements  about  aging,
                                                                      culties,  and  research  indi-  ation,” says Asebedo, who  including “As you get older,
                                                                      cates that their psychologi-  also edits the Journal of Fi-  you  are  less  useful”  and  “I
                                                                      cal  attitudes  help  deter-  nancial Therapy.            am as happy now as I was
                                                                      mine  how  well  they  cope  Asebedo      recommends  when I was younger. “
                                                                      with change.                 psychologist  Martin  E.P.  Positive views of aging had
                                                                      “Mindset is key, and it’s one  Seligman ‘s book, “Learned  a  greater  impact  on  life
                                                                      of those things that’s within  Optimism: How to Change  span  than  many  health
                                                                      our control,” says executive  Your  Mind  and  Your  Life,”  factors.  For  example,  low
                                                                      and retirement coach Joe  which  explains  cognitive  blood pressure or low cho-
                                                                      Casey,  author  of  “Win  the  behavioral  techniques  to  lesterol  each  contribute
                                                                      Retirement  Game:  How  to  combat  pessimism.  If  you  about four years of longev-
                                                                      Outsmart  the  9  Forces  Try-  need  further  or  ongoing  ity.  Other  healthy  behav-
                                                                      ing to Steal Your Joy.”      help,  consider  talking  with  iors,  including  refraining
                                                                      CULTIVATE OPTIMISM           a therapist about develop-   from  smoking,  maintaining
                                                                      A 2014 study by two Kansas  ing  a  more  optimistic  out-  a healthy weight and get-
                                                                      State  University  research-  look.                       ting  regular  exercise,  add
                                                                      ers found that people who  “It’s  not  the  Pollyannaish  one  to  three  years  to  life
                                                                      are more optimistic tend to  view,” Casey explains. “It’s  spans.
                                                                      be  more  satisfied  in  retire-  really  more  the  ‘OK,  let’s  Levy’s  research  also  has
                                                                      ment.  Study  participants’  look for the good.’”         found that positive views of
                                                                      levels  of  optimism  were  CULTIVATE A POSITIVE VIEW  aging can protect against
                                                                      measured  by  their  agree-  OF AGING                     dementia and help people
                                                                      ment  with  statements  in-  While  positive  thinking  in  recover  from  health  set-
                                                                      cluding “In uncertain times,  general can help you cope  backs. People can change
                                                                      I  usually  expect  the  best”  with  life,  positive  thinking  their  views  by  becoming
                                                                      and “Overall I expect more  about  aging  may  actually  more  aware  of,  and  chal-
                                                                      good  things  to  happen  to  extend your life.           lenging,  negative  stereo-
                                                                      me than bad.”                A  2002  study  led  by  Yale  types of aging, Levy writes
                                                                      Positive  emotions  such  as  University  professor  Becca  in  her  book  “Breaking  the
                                                                      optimism help people to be  R.  Levy  found  that  people  Age  Code:  How  Your  Be-
                                                                      more  resilient  and  to  think  who  had  more  positive  liefs  About  Aging  Deter-
                                                                      more creatively, while pes-  views of aging lived a me-   mine  How  Long  and  Well
                                                                      simism can make it harder  dian  of  7.5  years  longer  You Live .” She also recom-
                                                                      to  take  productive  action  than those with more neg-   mends  making  intergener-
                                                                      or cope with difficult situa-  ative attitudes.           ational friendships to com-
                                                                      tions, says the study’s lead  The  gap  persisted  even  bat ageism and looking for
                                                                      researcher Sarah Asebedo,  after  the  researchers  took  positive role models.
                                                                      now  a  professor  at  Texas  into  account  other  factors  CULTIVATE   A   GROWTH
                                                                      Tech  University’s  School  of  that  affect  longevity,  such  MINDSET
                                                                      Financial Planning.          as age, gender, socioeco-    Casey  says  people  can
                                                                      But  don’t  despair,  pessi-  nomic  status,  health  and  struggle in retirement if they
                                                                      mists: You can learn to be  loneliness.                   believe  that  they  have
                                                                      more optimistic.             Researchers      examined  stopped evolving and that
                                                                      “I  do  think  certain  people  how  study  participants’  their  days  of  learning  new
                                                                      might  have  a  disposition  views  of  aging  predicted  things are behind them. He
                                                                      toward  optimism  or  pes-   their survival up to 23 years  coaches  his  clients  to  de-
                                                                      simism,  but  that  doesn’t  later. The 338 men and 322  velop  a  “growth  mindset”
                                                                      mean  you  can’t  change  women ages 50 and older  that  embraces  learning
                                                                      your  outlook  and  change  had  responded  to  several  and change.q
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