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2. Discuss the following questions with your friends.
a. Why do you think those expressions help close a conversation politely?
b. What other polite ways can you think of to end a conversation that aren't in the dialogue?

How to say it?

Language Focus: Ending Small Talk Politely

In order to end a small talk politely, here is an explanation on three stages of exiting small talk politely.

Stage Function Examples
1. Signal the end* ✓ It informs the other person that you ✓ “I’d better get going.”
need to leave. ✓ “I need to get back to
Note: signaling the end or saying ✓ A polite reason or hint to leave helps class.”
something nice can be
interchangeable. make the transition feel natural. ✓ “I’d better get going now.”
✓ “I’ve got to see my
lecturer now.”
✓ “I don’t want to take up
more of your time.”
✓ “My friend is waiting for
me.”
✓ “I have another meeting
coming up.”
✓ “I’m afraid I need to get
going.”
2. Say something nice* ✓ It shows that you enjoy/appreciate ✓ “It was great talking with
the conversation. you.”
✓ It leaves a positive impression. ✓ “I really enjoyed our
chat.”
✓ “It was great catching up
with you.”
✓ “I really enjoyed our
chat.”
✓ “Thanks for the nice
conversation.”
✓ “It’s been lovely talking
with you.”
3. Say goodbye or suggest ✓ It allows the conversation to end ✓ “Take care.”
future plans politely. ✓ “Have a great day.”
✓ It allows future interactions. ✓ “See you around.”

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