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of feeling excitement about a new               aborting the mission is the safest                           many places there are even                       The good news is that all of
                         adventure, we start to feel                     course of action. Fear will most                             screens at checkouts and gas                    these things can be overcome.
                         trepidation. Uncertainty sort of                assuredly derail us until we learn                           pumps spewing more information                  We absolutely cannot leave our
                         floats in the ether, isn’t really               to overcome it with faith.                                   at us. It’s becoming increasingly               dreams, goals and visions to
                         personal and often can’t be                                                                                  difficult to escape it all.                     chance and hope that things
                         defined. I personally think this is                                                                          Distractions = busyness. Sure, we               will just work out. It will take
                         the first passenger we pick up                                                                               are busy, busy, busy all the time,              confidence, faith, community,
                         when we have veered off course                  Isolation                                                    but how many distractions are we                focus and managing stress in a
                         on our thought-train. If we stay                                                                             allowing to keep us from what is                healthy way to see them
                         on this track, we end up picking                Isolation is one of the best tricks                          really important? Are they getting              realized. Will there be
                         up other passengers we don’t                    of the enemy to get the thought-                             in the way of our dreams?                       challenges, obstacles and
                         really want on board.                           train off course. We need each                                                                               unforeseen life events? YES!
                                                                         other. We need a support                                      Stress                                         But we can choose to be
                                                                         system, people who believe in us                                                                             proactive instead of reactive
                                                                         and will cheer us on. We                                     Stress is the sum of all the parts.             when those things happen. We
                         Doubt                                           absolutely must have positive                                When we live in uncertainty,                    can shift our thinking from
                                                                         voices keeping us on the right                               doubt, fear, isolation and with                 being a victim to being a
                         The next passenger to climb                     path. When we are stripped of                                numerous distractions, we can                   victor. We can move beyond
                         aboard our wayward train is                     church services, regular                                     easily end up in a state of                     surviving and into a place of
                         Doubt. Doubt is absolutely                      socialization with friends and cut                           overwhelm. Stress causes our                    thriving. We get to be the
                         personal. We start to doubt if we               off from extended family, then                               fight, flight or freeze response to             gatekeepers of our thoughts
                         really heard from God. We start                 we can end up with too much                                  be tripped in our brains. Ideally,              and choose what we let in. If
                         to doubt ourselves and our                      time alone where thoughts can                                we would “fight” stress by doing                an unruly passenger sneaks
                         abilities. We may even doubt if                 easily become wayward.                                       things that lower it such as                    aboard the thought-train, kick
                         anyone else believes in us, or if               Solitude, for a time, is healthy                             exercise, engaging in an enjoyable              ‘em off and replace him with a
                         they will cheer us on. We may                   and should be a regular part of                              hobby, spending quality time with               passenger who will help, and
                         doubt not just what we can do,                  life, but isolation is unhealthy                             a friend, or pursuing a goal. The               not hinder, in reaching those
                         but who we are at our very core.                and should be avoided. As the                                “flight” response can lead to                   goals!
                         We doubt that we can make a                     old adage goes, “an idle mind is                             unhealthy escapism in the form of
                         difference. Doubt is very, very                 the devil’s playground.”                                     addictions with things like drugs,
                         destructive when left unchecked.                                                                             alcohol or food. Or, like me, you
                                                                                                                                      can have the “deer in the                       Where have you gone off
                                                                                                                                      headlights” response of freezing.               course or gotten stuck? What
                                                                         Distractions                                                 Stress isn’t dealt with. It gets                has held you back from
                         Fear                                                                                                         stuffed as you press on, stuck in               reaching your goals or living
                                                                         Distractions are inevitable in                               “survival mode”. This may not                   out your purpose? What would
                         All of that doubt comes skipping                these times we are living in and                             seem so bad at first, but science               your life look like if you made
                         along, holding hands with Fear                  in our culture. Information flies                            has proven that long-term                       some course corrections and
                         when they enter our thought-train.              at us at warp speed and through                              unresolved stress leads to sickness             kicked some unwelcomed
                         Fear is probably the biggest                    more avenues than ever before.                               and disease. Living in survival                 passengers off of your thought-
                         vision-killer of all. Fear feeds off            We have hundreds of TV                                       mode keeps us from thriving. It                 train? There is no time like the
                         of doubt and tells us all the things            channels, movies and music                                   keeps us stuck in the “have to’s”               present, a season of new life
                         that could possibly go wrong                    streaming on demand, social                                  instead of having a balance of                  and rebirth, to pull out those
                         BECAUSE of whatever it is we are                media, video games, news we                                  “want to’s”. In the overwhelm,                  dreams, dust them off and
                         doubting. It holds us back from                 stayed glued to because things                               there can be depression and a                   begin to water them. In time
                         taking risks. It keeps us from                  change from day-to-day…all in                                lack of joy. Being in this state                there will be precious fruit for
                         getting started or taking the next              addition to the regular demands                              makes it exceedingly difficult to               your labor and diligence! You
                         step. It whispers to us that failure            of life: work, health, household                             find the energy needed to pursue                CAN thrive and so can I!
                         is sure, and imminent, and that                 chores, kids, marriage, etc. In                              dreams.
                                                                                                                                                                                      Let’s do this!
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