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SENIOR LIVING


























                                friendships later in life







                   aking meaningful friendships later in life can be   Doris and Caroljean met at Samaritas Senior Living of Saginaw
                   challenging, but finding things in common is a great   and became fast friends shortly after the New Year in 2016. It is
            Mstart! (Priscilla) Till has been playing Scrabble for close   not often you see one without the other as they propel around
            to 50 years, learning from a family she rented from when her   the community. Doris and Caroljean share stories about their life
            husband was in the Air Force. Ruth learned how to                         before living at Samaritas and occasionally refer
            play here at Samaritas. In fact, that is how they met.    When asked what they   to each other as “my sister.”
            Ruth had been at Samaritas Senior Living of   would do without the        Both families have embraced each of the women
            Traverse City since last October, and Till since   other, Verla replied with   and include them in their visitations as part of
            January. They both attended a Scrabble game; that                         their family and celebrate birthdays, holidays
            is where their friendship began. The women have   a simple, “I would cry,”   and special family events.
            met each other’s children, and when asked what   while Sandy’s reply was,
            would be a perfect day, of course they said to spend   “I’m just glad we found   In some cases, there isn’t much in common.
            it with their kids. But if not able to do that, seated                    Nancy and Thema don’t have much in
            around the Scrabble board was a close second.   each other.”              common besides proximity, both being residents
                                                                                      of Samaritas Senior Living of Bloomfield Hills
            In Grand Rapids, Sandy and Verla, both residents of the Woods,   for the past four years. They moved in one month apart from each
            move in within two weeks of each other. Soon after moving in,   other in 2015.
            they both sat at the same table for lunch. The rest is history.
                                                                       The pair both moved into Samaritas following the death of their
            They immediately hit it off and became best friends. They do   husbands, a choice they insist was theirs and not their kids’. The
            everything together. They both enjoy going on walks, soaking up   socialization they found in each other and in the independent        senior living
            the sunshine in the summer months and going out to eat. They   living community has strengthened them, they agree, and keeps
            have bonded over the love for their husbands and children.   them going and enjoying each day.

            When asked what they would do without the other, Verla replied   Meeting new people and finding new happiness involves stepping
            with a simple, “I would cry,” while Sandy’s reply was “I’m just glad   out of one’s comfort zone.
            we found each other.” They have created a friendship like no other
            and are both thankful to have the other.                   To volunteer at any of our Senior Living communities, please
                                                                       contact Lauren Brosch at LBros@samaritas.org.




               Why Choose Samaritas?


               "YOU'RE NEVER ALONE. SOMEONE IS HERE 24 -7. I FEEL SAFE AND SECURE WHEN I
               GO TO BED AT NIGHT. MY DAUGHTERS ALSO FEEL VERY COMFORTABLE KNOWING
               THAT THERE IS SOMEONE LOOKING AFTER ME. THEY DON'T HAVE TO WORRY. IT'S A
               REAL PEACE OF MIND FOR THEM. I CAN'T SAY ENOUGH. I JUST LOVE IT HERE!"
               ~ JOSEPHINE, current resident touching on why she loves Samaritas Senior Living


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