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           Sometimes the Buddha appeared harsh in             Are they telling us the truth? Do we know them well
           reproaching his students but it was always without   or only casually? How old is the person? Do they face
           anger or hatred. If this is also skilful means, what are   difficulties at home? Do they have a history of sexual,
           the dangers for modern day teachers in using such   physical, or emotional abuse, and if so, how have they
           an approach in a similar manner?                   dealt with it? Has the person asked us for advice or are

                                                              we giving it because it is needed? What tone of voice
           Aggacitta: The Buddha was full of pure compassion and   and what words are best to express our ideas given who
           wisdom and his harsh instructions were manifestations   we’re speaking to? Are we the right person to give them
           of such qualities. But modern day teachers may lack   certain advice, or would the person be more receptive
           genuine compassion and their harsh words may be    if the same ideas were expressed by someone else? And
           motivated by a mixture of anger, frustration, spite,   most important, what is our motivation? It must be one
           conceit and delusion. And especially for the students of   of genuine care and kindness.
           a charismatic teacher, devoted unquestioned acceptance
           of such conduct could encourage the teacher to even   The Buddha has always emphasized the need to
           become a sociopathic cult leader.                  speak the truth but we sometimes hear comments
                                                              that out of compassion to save a life, it is alright to
           Min Wei: While the Buddha’s harsh reproaches were   tell an untruth. Can this be a skilful means too?
           skillful means devoid of anger or hatred, modern-
           day teachers must exercise caution when employing   Aggacitta: The stock explanation of false speech (e.g.
           similar approaches. The dangers lie in potential   in Sāleyyaka Sutta MN 41) reads: “… in full awareness
           misinterpretation and the risk of emotional harm.   he speaks falsehood for his own ends, or for another’s
           Unlike the Buddha, whose profound insight and      ends, or for some trifling worldly end.” According to
           compassion were unwavering, contemporary teachers   this definition, the end doesn’t matter; as long as all the
           might inadvertently project personal frustrations   factors are fulfilled, the dark kamma of false speech has
           or biases. This can lead to students feeling judged,   been committed.
           discouraged, or alienated, undermining their spiritual
           growth. Moreover, the modern cultural context, with its   In AN 4.232-238 the Buddha describes four types of
           emphasis on psychological safety and mutual respect,   kamma:
           may not easily accommodate harsh methods. Teachers   1.  Dark kamma with dark results
           should ensure that any corrective measures are     2.  Bright kamma with bright results
                                                                               Source:
           grounded in genuine compassion and understanding,   3.  Dark and bright kamma with dark and bright results
           clearly communicated as part of a caring, supportive   4.  Kamma that is neither dark nor bright with neither
           relationship. Balancing firmness with empathy and      dark nor bright results, leading to the ending of
           transparency can help maintain the integrity of such   kamma.
           approaches without causing unintended harm.
                                                              Telling an untruth (dark kamma) to save a life (bright
           Tsepal: Guiding others on the path is a weighty    kamma) belongs to the third category. The dark result
           responsibility and must be done with care. We must   could be experienced later as loss due to being lied to,
           be sensitive to who the person is and what their actual   and the bright result as happiness and well being due to
           questions are because often people aren’t clear about   being saved by a lie told by someone else.
           what they want to know. We must also be motivated
           by kindness and not by a wish to be important in the   Min Wei: Yes, telling an untruth to save a life can be
           other’s eyes or to control them.                   considered skillful means. The Buddha emphasized
                                                              speaking the truth as a fundamental ethical principle,
           So many factors need to be examined when deciding   but his teachings also recognize the importance of
           how to skilfully speak to someone: Is the person asking   compassion and context. In situations where speaking
           a Dharma question or are they seeking personal advice?   the truth could cause significant harm, such as risking
           What is our relationship to them? Do they trust us?   someone’s life, an untruth motivated by genuine
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