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was because I thought it might help teach me to develop my self-discipline. But

               somehow  I  had  not  been  aware  of  the  “self”  in  self-discipline.  I  wanted
               discipline  to  be  given  to  me  by  someone  else.  I  found  out  in  boot  camp  that
               others do not give willpower and self-discipline. The drill sergeant might have
               been persuasive and inspiring (or at times terrifying), but he couldn’t make me
               do anything until I decided to do it. Nothing happened until I generated the will
               to make it happen.

                    Make  a  promise  to  yourself  to  be  clear  and  truthful  about  your  own
               willpower. It is always there.





               30. Perform your little rituals


                    See yourself as a shaman or medicine man who needs to dance and sing to
               get the healing started. Make up a ritual that is yours and yours alone—a ritual
               that will be your own shortcut to self-motivation.

                    As  you  read  through  these  various  ways  to  motivate  yourself,  you  might

               have noticed that action is often the key. Doing something is what leads to doing
               something. It’s a law of the universe: An object in motion stays in motion.

                    The  great  basketball  player  Jack  Twyman  used  to  begin  each  practice
               session by getting to the court early and taking 200 shots at the basket. It always
               had to be 200 shots, which he counted out, and it didn’t matter if he already felt
               tuned up after 20 or 30 shots. He had to shoot 200. It was his ritual, and it always
               got  him  into  a  state  of  self-motivation  for  the  rest  of  the  practice  session  or
               game.

                    My  friend  Fred  Knipe,  an  Emmy  award-winning  television  writer  and
               comedian, did something  he called “driving for ideas.”  When he had  a major
               creative project to accomplish, he got in his car and drove around the desert near
               Tucson until ideas began to come to him. His theory was that the act of driving

               gave the anxious, logical left side of his brain something to do so the right side
               of his brain could be freed up to suggest ideas. It’s like giving your child some
               toys to play with so you can watch the evening news.

                    In his book about songwriting, Write from the Heart, John Stewart writes
               about composer and arranger Glenn Gould, who had a ritual for finding a new
               melody or musical idea when he seemed to be stuck and nothing was coming.
               He’d turn on two or three radios at the same time, all to different stations. He’d
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