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watched in the past week. In watching television, there is no combination of skill

               and challenge.

                    Contrast that dull pleasure hangover we get from watching television with
               what  happens  when  we  spend  the  same  amount  of  time  preparing  for  a  big
               Thanksgiving  dinner  for  friends  and  relatives.  In  looking  back,  we  remember
               quite vividly the entire Thanksgiving endeavor.

                    Despite her run-ins with Wall Street and the law, one of the most intriguing
               people on our national scene has always been Martha Stewart. Throughout the
               1990s,  she  personified  mastery  of  the  concept  of  small  enjoyments.  Her
               magazines  and  television  programs  celebrated  cooking,  gardening,  and  home
               entertainment skills. Her own contagious enthusiasm for the things she enjoyed
               made her, in my opinion, one of that decade’s true heroes of optimism. If you’re
               feeling  as  though  you  have  forgotten  how  to  enjoy  your  own  home,  yard,  or

               kitchen, you might buy one of her books and allow her optimism to inspire you.
               You can increase your own self-motivation by learning to be more aware of the
               profound difference between enjoyment and mere pleasure.




               88. Keep walking



                    Ever  since  I  was  a  child,  I  had  a  recurring  dream  that  I  began  each  day
               facing a mattress. The more I pushed into this mattress before my day began, the
               more the indentation went in, and the more saved-up the sprung energy of the
               mattress got. The more the mattress was indented with my pushing at the start of
               the day, the higher it would spring up when I lay down on it to sleep at night. I
               would lie down on this mattress at night and see how high my dreams would
               send me. How high I flew would always depend on the indentations I gave the
               mattress during the day. The impressions I gave it. How impressive I was. The
               difference I made.


                    After thinking about that dream, I decided to step up my walking. I decided
               that  the  recurring  dream  was  the  way  my  subconscious  chose  to  tell  me
               something vital. Something about the difference walking made. Something about
               oxygen being pushed into my system. Walking would be an action I could take
               while wide awake. Walking would drive more oxygen into my lungs. I would
               become more like the great football coach Amos Alonzo Stagg, who lived to be
               103 years old. Amos Alonzo Stagg was asked how he lived to be so old (the
               average life expectancy during his lifetime was 65) and he said, “I have, for the
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