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forbid out-of-hand the use of technology and social media,
but take the time to explain with love and compassion all
the real reasons as explained here and you will likely see
positive results.

Another issue I have with technology is the concept of
communication. As we know, we are essentially social
beings and quality communication is extremely important if
we are to truly share our thoughts and feelings with each
other. Yet often these days I see people — especially young
people — using technology that encourages reducing the
time and effort that goes into communication, effectively
shrinking the level of quality of the sharing of thoughts and
feelings. This can only have the negative effect of arresting
development and again, children need to be
compassionately taught about the value of good
communication, when it is important, and when we are
degrading the quality of our communication.

Pursuing constructive and quality communication is
everyone's business and we all must be vigilant and work to
ensure our young people are making the right choices.

On Making the Right Decisions in Life

So often we find ourselves at a crossroad where we must
make a decision. Sometimes coming to the right decision
can be an exercise in pain and confusion. Is there a way or
process to ensure finding the right decision?

I think there is, but like everything else in life that is real
and significant, it takes time, effort, and hard work. For the
decisions that would affect other people, just consulting the
Golden Rule can often get you to a pretty good place. How
would you honestly like to be treated under he same
circumstances? How would you like it if someone were to

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