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                                                  is one of those         Recently, a man came into MRM’s
                              EIGHTEENspecial milestone                   administration office along with his older
                              birthdays. It is a coming of age per se, an   adult son, to inquire about the Men’s
                              entry into adulthood, and a starting point   Shelter. He shared with staff that he had
         DID YOU
         KNOW?                on the road to your future.                 a foster child at home who was soon
                                                                          turning eighteen and said, “If he doesn’t
        50%                   Do you remember your 18th birthday?         have a job by the time his birthday comes
                              What you did and how you celebrated?

                              Now stop and imagine yourself being         around then, I’m dropping him off at your
        of adolescents aging out   dropped off at the shelter door on your   door, I just thought you should know.”
        of foster care and juvenile   18th birthday, because you had “aged   Stunned, staff responded, MRM’s doors
        justice systems become   out” of the foster care system. This      are always open to those in need.
        homeless within       day holds no celebration, no cake or         True to his word, a quiet, introverted boy
        six months.           candles, simply the harsh reality of         was dropped off at MRM’s Men’s Shelter

                              being homeless and unwanted.                 by his foster dad on his 18th birthday.
                                                                           Sam arrived at the shelter with all his
                              This startling face of homelessness          belongings stuffed into a backpack and
                              is not fiction; it is happening within       was questioning what life held next for
                              our community and the number of              him. He was told, “Now that he was no
                              homeless young adults are a rising           longer an income for his foster family, he
                              statistic. Studies report that 50% of        had become an unwanted burden.”
                              adolescents aging out of foster care
                              and juvenile justice systems become          Sam had no life skills, no job and no
                              homeless within six months.                  idea how to navigate adulthood or what

        August 2021  |  Harbor Light                                                                                                 4
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