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           and shrewdest male is not only number one in the dominance hier-
           archy among his fellows, but also becomes number-one lovemaker in
           the group. For example, in one observation, the number-one or
           “alpha” male in a particular rookery of 185 females and 120 males was
           responsible for half the observed copulations. In smaller rookeries of
           40 or fewer females, the alpha male is typically responsible for 100
           percent of the copulations.
               With these data in mind, some observers urge caution in at-
           tempting to control aggression in humans, suggesting that, as in
           some lower animals, aggression may be necessary for survival. This
           reasoning is based in part on the assumption that the same mecha-
           nism that drives one man to kill his neighbor drives another to “con-
           quer” outer space, “sink his teeth” into a difficult mathematical
           equation, “attack” a logical problem, or “master” the universe.
               But, as I argued earlier, this reasoning is based on an exaggerated
           definition of aggression. To equate high achievement and advance-
           ment with hostility and aggression is to confuse the issue. A problem
           or skill can be mastered without harming other people or even with-
           out attempting to conquer them. This is a difficult distinction for us
           to grasp because the Western mind—and perhaps the American mind
           in particular—has been trained to equate success with victory, to
           equate doing well with beating someone. M. F. Ashley Montagu 22
           feels that an oversimplification and a misinterpretation of Darwin’s
           theory have provided the average person with the mistaken idea that
           conflict is necessarily the law of life. Ashley Montagu states that it was
           convenient, during the Industrial Revolution, for the wealthy indus-
           trialists, who were exploiting the workers, to justify their exploitation
           by talking about life being a struggle and its being natural for the
           fittest (and only the fittest) to survive. The danger is that this kind of
           reasoning becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and can lead us to ignore
           or play down the survival value of nonaggressive and noncompetitive
           behavior. For example, more than one hundred years ago, the Russian
           scientist and social reformer Peter Kropotkin concluded that coop-
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           erative behavior and mutual aid have great survival value for many
           forms of life.There is ample evidence to support this conclusion.The
           cooperative behavior of certain social insects, such as termites, ants,
           and bees, is well known. Perhaps not so well known is a form of be-
           havior in the chimpanzee that can only be described as altruistic. It
           goes something like this: Two chimpanzees are in adjoining cages.
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