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It's that part of the day you dread. Your                   Tantrums are normal in the child's
     child has just decided to take you to the                   development cycle and indicate tiredness
     edge of your patience with his ear-                         or sleepiness, hunger or irritability at not
     piercing, earth shattering screams and                      getting what they want.
     you are just about to set things right…the

     way you know best…by shouting back                          How Does This Behavior
     even louder.                                                Change Over Age?

     But if you keep the frustration away for a                  As children grow older and especially
     while, you can really learn a lot from                      between their age of 18 months and 4

     these episodes.                                             years, they start slowly learning the
                                                                 ability of handling their heightened
     Why Does Your Child Throw                                   emotional feelings without the help of
                                                                 their parents. This happens as cognitive
     Tantrums?
                                                                 development of the brain is more
     Tantrums are common in kids (boys and                       pronounced.
     girls) till the age of 2 years. Temper
     tantrums range from simple whining and                      Do not worry; it is perfectly fine for such
     sobbing to outright screaming, getting                      bribes, as long as they are done at your
     violent with objects or people and holding                  terms.
     their breath. Some lucky parents get
     away with having kids that rarely throw                     How to Deal With Your Child's
     tantrums but these are rare cases.                          Tantrums?


                                                                 The first thing you might want to do when
                                                                 your child is throwing a tantrum is to
                                                                 understand the actual reason behind his
                                                                 frustration. As we mentioned above, the
                                                                 reasons may be usually related to food,
                                                                 milk, seeking attention or pointing to
                                                                 discomfort from a soiled diaper.


                                                                 Stay Calm:

                                                                 It is always very important to stay calm
                                                                 when your child is throwing a tantrum.
                                                                 Instead, if you start shouting at your child
                                                                 or try hitting him/her, the situation just
                                                                 worsens. Staying calm also helps in
                                                                 giving your child a peaceful atmosphere,
                                                                 thereby reducing stress for both of you.






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