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196    Chapter 10  Members and Leaders in Small Group Communication



                                sKiLL DeveLopMent experienCe


                                            responding to individual roles

                                            For each of the five individual roles, compose a response or two that you as a leader might make in order to
                                            deal with this dysfunctional role playing. Be careful that your responses don’t alienate the individual or the
                                            group.
                                                     Individual, dysfunctional roles  responding to Individual roles
                   One major value of small          The aggressor
                   group interaction is that         The recognition seeker or self-confessor
                   everyone profits from
                   the insights of everyone          The blocker
                   else; individual roles can        The special interest pleader
                   get in the way.                   The dominator





                            Communication         the group from achieving its goal and are individual rather than group oriented. Such
                            Choice point          roles, often termed dysfunctional, hinder the group’s effectiveness in terms of both
                            Individual roles      productivity and personal satisfaction. Here are some examples of individual roles:
                            In a group of workers, one   ●   The aggressor expresses negative evaluation of members and attacks the group:
                  member consistently plays the role of   “That’s a terrible idea. It doesn’t make any sense.”
                  blocker, objecting to everything anyone
                  says. Another member plays the role of self-  ●   The recognition seekers and self-confessors try to focus attention on themselves,
                  confessor, revealing feelings no one wants   boast about their accomplishments rather than the task at hand, and express their
                  to hear. What are some of the options that   own feelings rather than focus on the group: “The system I devised at B&B was a
                  members have for dealing with individual role   great success; everyone loved it. We should just go with that.”
                  players like these?             ●    The blocker provides negative feedback, is disagreeable, and opposes other members
                                                     or suggestions regardless of their merit: “You’re dreaming if you think that will work.”
                                             ●   The special interest pleader disregards the goals of the group and pleads the case of some
                                               special group: “This solution isn’t adequate; it doesn’t address the needs of XYZ.”
                                             ●   The dominator tries to run the group or members by pulling rank, flattering members, or
                                               acting the role of boss: “I’ve been here the longest; I know what works and what doesn’t
                                               work.”
                                               A popular individual role born on the Internet is trolling, the practice of posting mes-
                                            sages that you know are false or outrageous just so you can watch the group members correct
                                            you or get emotionally upset by your message. As in any group, behavior such as trolling or
                                            flaming wastes time and energy and diverts the group from its primary objective.


                                            MeMber PartICIPatIOn and skIlls
                                            Here are several guidelines to help make your participation in small group communication
                 Watch the Video            more effective and enjoyable.
                 “Group Project” at
                 MyCommunicationLab
                                            be Group Oriented  When participating in a small group, you serve as a member of a
                                            team. You share common goals with the other group members, and your participation is
                                            valuable to the extent that it advances this shared goal. In a team situation, you need to pool
                                            your talents, knowledge, and insights to promote the best possible solution for the group.
                                            Although a group orientation calls for the participation and cooperation of all group mem-
                                            bers, this guideline does not suggest that you abandon your individuality, personal values, or
                                            beliefs for the group’s sake. Individuality with a group orientation is most effective. And
                                            because the most effective and the most creative solutions often emerge from a combination
                                            of ideas, approach small group situations with flexibility; come to the group with ideas and
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