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116    CHAPTER 4                Social Structure and Social Interaction


          FIGURE 4.4         Role Strain and Role Conflict



                                        You                                                   You






                Son or
                daughter       Friend          Student        Worker                        Student





              Visit mom in    Go to 21st     Prepare for     Come in for            Do well in    Don't make
                hospital       birthday      tomorrow's      emergency             your classes  other students
                                party          exam           overtime                              look bad





                                                                                              Role
                                     Role Conflict
                                                                                             Strain
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                                       and happily running errands. Or this description may not even come close to your par-
                                       ticular role performance.
                                          Ordinarily, our statuses are separated sufficiently that we find little conflict between
                                       our role performances. Occasionally, however, what is expected of us in one status
                                       (our role) is incompatible with what is expected of us in another status. This problem,
                                       known as role conflict, is illustrated in Figure 4.4, in which family, friendship, stu-
                                       dent, and work roles come crashing together. Usually, however, we manage to avoid
                                       role conflict by segregating our statuses, although doing so can require an intense
                                       juggling act.
                                          Sometimes the same status contains incompatible roles, a conflict known as role
                                       strain. Suppose that you are exceptionally well prepared for a particular class assignment.
                                       Although the instructor asks an unusually difficult question, you find yourself knowing
                                       the answer when no one else does. If you want to raise your hand, yet don’t want to
                                       make your fellow students look bad, you will experience role strain. As illustrated in Fig-
                                       ure 4.4, the difference between role conflict and role strain is that role conflict is conflict
                                       between roles, while role strain is conflict within a role.
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           Video: Ways We Live         Sign-Vehicles.  To communicate information about the self, we use three types of
                                       sign-vehicles: the social setting, our appearance, and our manner. The social setting is
        role conflict conflicts that some-  the place where the action unfolds. This is where the curtain goes up on your perfor-
        one feels between roles because   mance, where you find yourself on stage playing parts and delivering lines. A social set-
        the expectations are at odds with   ting might be an office, dorm, living room, classroom, church, or bar. It is wherever you
        one another
                                       interact with others. The social setting includes scenery, the furnishings you use to com-
        role strain conflicts that someone   municate messages, such as desks, blackboards, scoreboards, couches, and so on.
        feels within a role               The second sign-vehicle is appearance, or how you look when you play your roles. On
        sign-vehicle the term used by   the most obvious level is your choice of hairstyle to communicate messages about your-
        Goffman to refer to how people   self. (You might be proclaiming “I’m wild and sexy” or “I’m serious and professional”
        use social setting, appearance, and   and, quite certainly, “I’m masculine” or “I’m feminine”). Your appearance also includes
        manner to communicate informa-  props, which are like scenery except that they decorate your body rather than the set-
        tion about the self
                                       ting. Your most obvious prop is your costume, ordinarily called clothing. You switch
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