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120    CHAPTER 4                Social Structure and Social Interaction

                                                                   bewilderment, even indignation and anger. In one
                                                                   exercise, Garfinkel asked students to act as though
                                                                   they were boarders in their own homes. They
                                                                   addressed their parents as “Mr.” and “Mrs.,” asked
                                                                   permission to use the bathroom, sat stiffly, were
                                                                   courteous, and spoke only when spoken to. As you
                                                                   can imagine, the other family members didn’t know
                                                                   what to make of their behavior:
                                                                   They vigorously sought to make the strange actions intel-
                                                                   ligible and to restore the situation to normal appear-
                                                                   ances. Reports (by the students) were filled with accounts
                                                                   of astonishment, bewilderment, shock, anxiety, embar-
                                                                   rassment, and anger, and with charges by various fam-
                                                                   ily members that the student was mean, inconsiderate,
                                                                   selfish, nasty, or impolite. Family members demanded
                                                                   explanations: What’s the matter? What’s gotten into you?
                                                                   . . . Are you sick? . . . Are you out of your mind or are you
                                                                   just stupid? (Garfinkel 1967)
        All of us have background
        assumptions, deeply ingrained     In another exercise, Garfinkel asked students to take words and phrases literally.
        assumptions of how the world   When one student asked his girlfriend what she meant when she said that she had a flat
        operates. What different background   tire, she said:
        assumptions do you think are
        operating here? If the annual “No   What do you mean, “What do you mean?” A flat tire is a flat tire. That is what I meant.
        Pants! Subway Ride” gains popularity,   Nothing special. What a crazy question!
        will background assumptions for this
        day change?
                                       Another conversation went like this:
                                       ACQUAINTANCE: How are you?
                                             STUDENT:  How am I in regard to what? My health, my finances, my schoolwork,
                                                       my peace of mind, my … ?
                                       ACQUAINTANCE:  (red in the face): Look! I was just trying to be polite. Frankly, I don’t
                                                       give a damn how you are.
                                          Students can be highly creative when they are asked to break background assump-
                                       tions. The young children of one of my students were surprised one morning when
                                       they came down for breakfast to find a sheet spread on the living room floor. On it
                                       were dishes, silverware, lit candles—and bowls of ice cream. They, too, wondered
                                       what was going on, but they dug eagerly into the ice cream before their mother could
                                       change her mind.
                                          This is a risky assignment to give students, because breaking some background
                                       assumptions can make people suspicious. When a colleague of mine gave this assign-
                                       ment, a couple of his students began to wash dollar bills in a laundromat. By the time
                                       they put the bills in the dryer, the police had arrived.

                                       In Sum: Ethnomethodologists explore background assumptions, the taken-for-granted
                                       ideas about the world that underlie our behavior. Most of these assumptions, or basic rules
                                       of social life, are unstated. We learn them as we learn our culture, and it is risky to violate
                                       them. Deeply embedded in our minds, they give us basic directions for living everyday life.


                                       The Social Construction of Reality
                                          On a visit to Morocco, in northern Africa, I decided to buy a watermelon. When I in-
                                          dicated to the street vendor that the knife he was going to use to cut the watermelon was
                                          dirty (encrusted with filth would be more apt), he was very obliging. He immediately bent
                                          down and began to swish the knife in a puddle on the street. I shuddered as I looked at the
                                          passing burros that were urinating and defecating as they went by. Quickly, I indicated by
                                          gesture that I preferred my melon uncut after all.
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