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for instance, many people mistakenly believe that anger makes them strong and able to fight for what they need and desire. There's no need to fight to get what you want, and anger doesn't strengthen you-it weakens you. Spending out of anger-to get back at a spouse or to rebel against your parents-simply hurts you. By exploring your negative emotions, you'll start to see how they didn't create the feelings of abundance, love, and worthiness that you believed they could stir in you. You'll start to see the behavior patterns you've been ignoring, patterns that you can change once you're aware of them.
4. Decide to switch from negative emotions into positive ones. Choose a positive emotion to replace your negative one, and act now to create it. Switching emotions is as easy as flipping on a light. I know that it may not seem that way, but there are many ways to switch your feelings almost instantaneously. You can say, "I've had enough of that feeling!" or walk out of the room, take a deep breath, and tell yourself, This anger isn't working for me. What positive emotion would I like to feel? Then you can start remembering an instance when you felt a positive emotion or imagining a scenario in which you would feel it. If you're trying to create abundance, remember that time when you were enjoying a delicious meal with friends and delighting in the companionship and good food, or imagine yourself living in splendor and writing a huge check to charity.
Let your imagination run free and see what images of abundance come up for you. As the scene plays in your mind, allow your feeling of abundance to rise up inside you. Don't let creditors influence you to feel fearful or guilty.
5. Act in accordance with your new, positive feelings. Transform what you have of value into payment for your debt. Work hard, come up with new ideas for generating money, and look for opportunities to create more wealth. Remember, too, that when you give value unconditionally, you'll increase your wealth-don't get attached to how much money you want to create, and when. Know your rights. Look into loans, debt consolidation, and credit-management services, which are low cost or even, in some cases, free. Learn the lessons of your debt and accept the consequences: Get a second job, sell your possessions, move into a smaller home, or do whatever it is you have to do to pay off what