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Making it Count!                              Have a Safety Plan!                                                               People tend to think of physical or sexual

                                                      If you have been a victim before, make a plan                                     abuse when they hear the term domestic       Workforce
                                                      to keep you and your children safe in the future.                                 violence, but there are many forms of abuse.   Life Skills
        You Have The Right To:                        Have a bag already packed with the following                                      Most abusive situations are about the need

        ƒ Be treated with respect                     items if you have them:                                                           to control other people: how they feel, what   No. 12
        ƒ Express opinions                            ƒ   Change of clothes for yourself and your children                              they think, who their friends are, how they

        ƒ Be listened to and taken seriously          ƒ   Address book, with phone numbers of friends,                                  spend money, and how they behave.
                                                                                                                                        Abuse can happen once, or over and over. If
        ƒ Ask for what you want                           relatives, doctors, lawyers
                                                      ƒ   Money, including change for a pay phone        you have concerns about whether you or a loved one has experienced abuse,
        ƒ Show feelings                                                                                  you need to read this pamphlet and work through the questions throughout
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                                                      ƒ   Extra keys to the house and car
        ƒ Say “NO”                                                                                       it.  Remember love is not about hurt, pain
                                                      ƒ   Emergency medicines
        ƒ Live without fear of abuse                                                                     or constant chaos. It’s important to keep   Facts About Abuse
                                                      ƒ   Important papers, such as checking and savings
        ƒ Have friends and outside interests              account numbers, copy of  your lease, copy of  yourself and your family safe. You do have   ƒ Domestic abuse can
        ƒ Say “I disagree.”                               no violent contact order/protective order, birth  options and people who can help.         happen to anyone
                            For Evaluation Only                                                         Everyone has a right to be treated       ƒ More than 50% of kids who
                                                          certificates, social security numbers for members
                   (www.angriesout.com/family.htm)        of your family, state medical cards, etc.      My Well-Being                               regardless of race, age,
                                                                                                                                                     sexual orientation, religion,

         Exercise: My Action Plan                     (PREVAIL, Inc., Victim’s Assistance, Support Group, Resources &                                gender, education, or income                Abuse In Families
                                                      Referrals, Sept., 2005)
                                                                                                                                                     level.
          Where I will go:                                                                              with respect. Too often in an abusive        witness their fathers beating




                                                                                                        of well-being and are made to feel that
                                                                                                                                                     batterers or victims.
          Which agency(ies) I will call:                                                                situation, people give up their own sense    their mothers also become
                                                                                                        they don’t deserve to be treated better.
                                                                                                                                                     become batterers.
                                                                                                        8   Physical well-being – feeling safe and   ƒ Boys are more likely to
          What action I’ll take to keep myself and my family safe:                                          free from physical harm              ƒ Girls frequently date or
                                                                                                        8   Social well-being – being able           marry abusers.
                                                                                                            to interact with loving family and
                                                                                                            supportive friends                   ƒ Nearly 80% of girls who
                                                                                                        8   Financial well-being – having access     have been physically abused
                                                            Learnovation, LLC’s mission is to empower people   and control of their own money        by guys they date will
                                                            to manage their own careers. We believe in a                                             continue to date them.
                   ©2017 Learnovation ® ® , LLC All Rights Reserved.  holistic approach to job readiness - job skills and   8   Community well-being – being able to
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                               www.learnovation.com         life skills working together to bring out the best in   interact with people and get support  (National Domestic Violence
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                                                            people.
                                                                                                        8   Purpose well-being – having goals and   Hotline 1-800-799-SAFE [7233])
                                                                                                            future
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