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TOPUCU Standard Workbook                                                                                Lesson 2: Part 2



            LESSON 2: PART 2
 And that brings us to the next step.  stop it becomes much more difficult to stay
 motivated and then weight-gain becomes
 In Lesson One you chose a habit you wanted   an issue again.  WHAT ARE THE ODDS?
 to change. And now you may be looking
 for someone to cheer you on and praise
 you for what you’re doing. But the odds are   THIS IS THE "SECRET"!
 you aren’t going to receive a lot of external
 motivation when you’re setting out to make   Most habit-change doesn’t succeed    Previously in Part 1 of this lesson, we   someone offered you one hundred dollars.
 that change. If you do, that’s wonderful. But   long-term because it’s dependent on   discussed that there are two types of   You would gladly accept it right? Of course
 when we teach you the principles of internal   external motivation. If you can understand   motivation – EXTERNAL MOTIVATION and   you would. Now, let’s say you were required
 motivation in Part 2 of this lesson, you will   that, then you are ready to move on to    INTERNAL MOTIVATION. We also learned   to run 1 mile in order to get that money.
 learn how to stay motivated even though   the second part of this lesson. We’re going   that external motivation is temporary and   Would you do it? Absolutely you would! Now,
 this external praise isn’t coming your way.   to teach you a calculation that you can   fleeting, while internal motivation is the key   let’s say the reward was 500 dollars, but
 The common cycle in a weight-loss goal, for   do inside your own brain, which – if done   to becoming a finisher and transforming your   you had to run 5 miles to get it. Is this still
 example, is that when you begin to look a   properly – will not only create motivation,   life. Internal motivation is what will push you   something you would do? The vast majority
 little thinner, people begin to notice and   but help you deal with the moments    to succeed when there is no one else there   of you would answer yes. That money is
 compliment you on your hard work with a   when your motivation falters. It will    to motivate you. It’s the feeling in your gut   motivating you to dig down deep and do
 “well done” or a “you look great.” But once   change your life.  that is urging you to get off the couch and   those miles. Even if you’ve never run 5 miles
 you reach your goal-weight and the praises   workout; it’s the voice in your head telling   at a time before, most of you would jog, walk
            you to take the extra initiative in class or             or even crawl to make it happen, because
            at work. But you already knew that. You                  that 500 dollars is motivating you. Now
            wouldn’t have started this program if the                here’s where things get interesting. Let’s say
 NOTES:     desire to change your circumstance wasn’t               you were offered ten thousand dollars to run

            already somewhere inside you. Remember,                 5 miles. BUT you have to do it in under 20
            this program isn’t about information; it’s               minutes. Literally, everyone listening to this
            about transformation. We’re going to teach               just became very unmotivated, right? You’re
            you a formula that will help you act on that             not thinking about the ten thousand dollars
            gut feeling in the pit of your stomach and               anymore; you’re thinking about the fact that
            respond to the urging of that voice in your              there maybe one or two people in the world
            head. It’s a formula that will not only help             that can make that time and that you are
            you tap into the wellspring of motivation                definitely not one of them.
            you have inside you, but also help you
            pinpoint – and ultimately destroy – the                 Your motivation is gone. You’re not even
            things inside you that make you feel                     going to try because you did the calculation
            unmotivated. But only listen to this if you’re           in your brain and you’ve come to the
            actually ready to make that change. You                  conclusion that the odds of success are
            can’t just hear the formula; you’ve got to               absolutely zero.
            memorize it and implement it each day.                   How many times do we do this on a daily
            That is what will bring change in your                   basis? We literally weigh the reward and the
            habits and ultimately change in your life.               odds of success against the hard work it’s
                                                                     going to take to achieve them. These three
            Are you ready? Then let’s get down to it!
                                                                     things are the components of motivation:
            One of the biggest things that affects our               odds of success, reward and hard work.
            motivation is our perceived “ODDS OF                    And if you can understand how they relate
            SUCCESS” at any given goal we may or may                 to each other then you are on your way to
            not set for ourselves. For example, let’s say            making a change. So let’s break it down.


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