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Building Self-Confidence


                   Though some people are naturally born with self confidence, most of

                   them learn or acquire it as they grow. There is nothing which is as

                   good as having self confidence.


                   Confidence is everything because you will proud of who you are, what
                   you do and what you say. People will also trust and have faith in you if

                   you. As stated earlier the well renowned speakers have one character
                   which most people lack and it is none other than self confidence.



                   If you have self confidence you can convince. If you lack this attribute
                   you will find it very hard or impossible to take leadership roles. The

                   most successful men and women build self confidence in themselves

                   and in whatever they do. Self confidence will also help you overcome
                   challenges in life.


                   It will help you make decisions quickly and a put off any doubts which

                   you may have on the probability of success or failure of the thing you
                   want to undertake. Check the following diagrammatic illustration

                   about self confidence and doubt you will take long time to decide or

                   be totally indecisive if you have low or no self confidence.


                   Research has shown that most people are reluctant to back or
                   approve something which was proposed by someone who at the time

                   of leadership or proposal was fumbling, apologetic and nervous.


                   You will persuade  most people if you hold you head high, answer

                   questions directly  and with confidence and when you openly admit
                   when you do not know something. If you are self confident you will

                   inspire many others including your seniors, equals, audience, friends,



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