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Positive self-esteem



                   Positive self esteem will give you the opportunity to relax.


                   Characteristics of persons with positive self esteem


                   •  Believe in certain principles and values

                   •  Can defend themselves when they are opposed

                   •  They feel secure to modify them as they gain experience of life
                   •  They act to conform with what they feel is the best choice for them

                   •  Trust their own judgments

                   •  They do not feel guilty or offended when their opinions or
                       suggestions are rejected

                   •  They do not spend much time worrying about past events or

                       happenings
                   •  They are not much worried for the future but they are prepared for

                       whatever may happen

                   •  They plan for the future and learn from their past and from the
                       lives of others

                   •  Have confidence in their capability of solving problems

                   •  Ask help from others when they believe that the matter is difficult
                       or complex for them

                   •  They believe they are equal; they do not feel superior or inferior to
                       others

                   •  They do not pride themselves as the best and they do not

                       admonish others
                   •  They are independent minded; they are not greatly influenced by

                       others

                   •  They are ready to work with others




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