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How to build a strong self image


                   Most people without self evidence do not have the skills or techniques

                   of  building  a  strong  and  healthy  self  image.  Self  image  helps  you
                   achieve what you want. If you lack it, you will not be able to achieve

                   the desired goals.


                   You  will  also  not  be  able  to  play  the  game  of  life  well  because  it

                   follows strict rules most of which you acquire through experience and
                   not being taught anywhere in class. The following are the major

                   strategies in which you can build self confidence.


                   Take full responsibility for your life: Taking full responsibility of your

                   life does not mean accepting responsibility for mistakes without fault.
                   Taking responsibility mean that you accept the good and bad things

                   associated with you. It means being  product of your personality or
                   anything you are associated with.



                   Make the right choices: The way  you make  your choice determines
                   whether you will achieve the set goals or not. Take for example if you

                   want to lose weight. What  you day  every day and  ever  minute will
                   determine whether you will lose or gain weight. You should exercise,

                   take the recommended meals and avoid those which lead to increase
                   in weight. The choice of what you do every day will determine your

                   destiny.


                   Move past the comfort zones: To get something good and desirable

                   you must work hard and there is no exception to this rule. You reap

                   the fruits of whatever you have planted. If you want to live
                   comfortably and relax then it will take you longer to achieve your

                   dreams. If you work past the zones of comfort and engage in



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