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How to build a strong self image
Most people without self evidence do not have the skills or techniques
of building a strong and healthy self image. Self image helps you
achieve what you want. If you lack it, you will not be able to achieve
the desired goals.
You will also not be able to play the game of life well because it
follows strict rules most of which you acquire through experience and
not being taught anywhere in class. The following are the major
strategies in which you can build self confidence.
Take full responsibility for your life: Taking full responsibility of your
life does not mean accepting responsibility for mistakes without fault.
Taking responsibility mean that you accept the good and bad things
associated with you. It means being product of your personality or
anything you are associated with.
Make the right choices: The way you make your choice determines
whether you will achieve the set goals or not. Take for example if you
want to lose weight. What you day every day and ever minute will
determine whether you will lose or gain weight. You should exercise,
take the recommended meals and avoid those which lead to increase
in weight. The choice of what you do every day will determine your
destiny.
Move past the comfort zones: To get something good and desirable
you must work hard and there is no exception to this rule. You reap
the fruits of whatever you have planted. If you want to live
comfortably and relax then it will take you longer to achieve your
dreams. If you work past the zones of comfort and engage in
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