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Wrapping Up

"You cannot prevent the birds of worry and care from flying over

your head. But you can stop them from building a nest in your
head."

Most people give up and believe that they were born unlucky and this

is wrong. You can do something to improve your life if you have self
confidence. Self confidence is built by two main aspects of self efficacy

and self esteem. Even the most successful men and women fail in

some aspects. It is resilience and ability to cope up with challenges in
life which will bring positive change to your life.

How do you view yourself?

Do you view yourself as somebody who is worth? As somebody who
can lead others? As somebody who is worthless? Do you view yourself

as unlucky?..As lucky? …as advantaged?....as disadvantaged? HOW
WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF? You might not be successful

at the moments and you may hold the opinion that the chances of

succeeding in the future are limited. In all these instances, there is no
reason to worry.

Set Goals

As discussed in this book, you are like a light paper at times of strong

wind if you do not have goals. You will move by masses if you do not

have goals for your life. You may always see the negative side of life
unless you view where you are coming from and where you are going.

Take down a paper and write down your successes and failures as

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