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               By Stephanie Lee












           The sun was shining  made  sense  to  take  the  myself before my client   About an hour later  now” urge so it seemed I
        in a bright blue sky. The  train. Parking was ridic-  appointment.  I was dressed, very well  could probably hold it for
        temperature was in the  ulously expensive, and   It took real finesse to  put together I might  45 minutes or so.
        mid-seventies and it was  driving in traffic could be  work out the just-right  add, and heading out the   After my 10 minute
        a perfect day. I was on my  so stressful.   schedule for arrival at  door. Suddenly I felt the  drive to the BART station,
        way from Oakland to see   Over  breakfast  I  these client visits. None-  beginnings of an urge  I discovered I didn’t have
        a client in San Francisco   thought about what I  theless, I was quite proud  to pee. Since I’d already  a ticket for the train. Usu-
        and thought I’d take the  wanted to wear and how  of my skills in calculating  locked the front door,  ally, I carried a ticket in
        BART train to get there.  much time I needed to  the perfect time frame  the thought of all I’d  my wallet, but not today.
           That’s Bay Area Rapid  allow myself to get to my  needed to get dressed  have to do to go to the  Since I hadn’t factored
        Transit  although  some-  appointment. The “what-  and get to my appoint-  bathroom seemed like a  ticket-buying  into  my
        times “Rapid” is a bit of a  to-wear” was easy; I liked  ment on this perfect day.  major inconvenience. I’d  exact timing, I was be-
        misnomer.  This was the  to dress up and wear   Did other people  have to unlock the door,  ginning to panic. Fortu-
        late eighties and BART  professional attire so my  spend this much time  go  back  upstairs  to  the  nately, I had some small
        was  still  in  its  infancy  closet was full of pieces  working out the details of  bathroom, undress, pee,  bills for the machine, but
        working out the bugs.   like that.          their daily activities? I de-  get dressed again, and  now I had to rush. Fortu-
           Normally  it  would   One of the negatives  cided they must; other-  freshen up before I could  nately too, there was an
        take about 30 minutes  of using public transpor-  wise, we would all always  leave.    available ticket machine
        on the train to get from  tation is not being able  be late for everything. No   No, that just wasn’t  without a line.
        the East Bay, where I  to control your departure  need to concern myself  going to work. This little   Unfortunately,  the
        lived, to downtown San  and arrival times. I want-  with the possibility that  adventure was not fac-  ticket  machine  wouldn’t
        Francisco. Since my cli-  ed to be early enough to  I might be exhibiting  tored into my carefully  take  my  dollars.  I
        ent’s office was just a  be on time, but not so  obsessive-compulsive  laid-out planned sched-  stretched,  pulled,  rolled
        short walk from one  early that I’d have to find  behavior, or some other  ule. Besides, I hadn’t felt  and unrolled, folded, and
        of the BART stations, it  something to do with  condition. Right?  the  “have  to  go  right  unfolded my bills until

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