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very man you room and heard the pro- her young son that
meet, and/or fall verbial locker room talk. “before you ask some girl
in love with, is If you could be a fly on for her hand now, you
Eusually always the wall, and didn’t get better shop around”. Well,
practically perfect. Yeah, washed off, you would that advice is good for
right, in your dreams. Be- most likely be shocked both women and men. In
fore giving your heart and at how some men use today’s world, when you
soul to your dreamboat, derogatory language in want to make a critical
seek an impartial opinion. reference to their girl- purchase, you usually
In my experience it has friends. Some men like to go online and do some
been that when a woman appear macho to other extensive investigation.
decides to choose a mate men and think that tak- If you ignore the
or significant other, they ing a woman for granted obvious signals, like how
usually solicit an opinion and putting them down he puts you down, or
from another woman. is a normal way to act. places his feelings and
That may not always be I have observed that wants ahead of yours,
the best course of action. men who grow up with or he doesn’t communi-
You should also consider sisters have a better un- cate well, he is making
asking an impartial man derstanding of a woman’s everything all about
what impressions they wants and needs. They himself. Or worse yet, he’s
have of this new person also have a tendency to physically or mentally
in your life. Ask a brother, treat women with respect abusive. These are things
a male cousin, or a long and recognize their finer that will surface in a long
time male friend for their points. Having said all engagement. You should
opinion. Men usually this, I should point out be asking yourself, do you
have a good instinct that there are exceptions. want to spend the rest of
about whether or not Some men who grow your life with this person,
another man is full of up with a father who and do you want them
it or just trying to take respects and cherishes to be a father to your
advantage of a wom- his wife IS passing on a children?
an before terminating positive behavior about I grew up in an era
their relationship. After how to treat women to where women were
receiving suggestions his son. When possible, treated with respect. A
from both sources, you observe how this new gentleman pulled out a
can balance your feelings man in your life treats chair for his woman, he
and your common sense his mom, and how she is opened car doors for her,
to make an intellectual treated by the other male and he would never, ever,
decision. You should not family members. strike her.
be influenced by your I am a firm believer I realize there are
emotions alone. in long engagements. politically correct issues in
Most women have You should spend two or today’s society, but I don’t
never been in more years, rather than a believe a woman should
a male couple of months, before ignore their special and
locker you both make the uniqueness as a “woman”.
decision to cement your I’m not of the belief that
marital relationship. You men and women are the
need time to evaluate same; but rather, women
the person with whom bring special feminine
you may spend the rest qualities to a relationship
of your life. It seems that that a man just can’t
most women will spend match. I also don’t think
more time selecting that most men are knuck-
clothing they will le dragging oafs, as some
wear to work than have suggested. There are
they do when they many men who will make
choose a man to a wonderful life partner;
become their sole
you just have to do your
A Guy’s Point of mate. There is an homework. Don’t settle
for the first handsome
old sixties
face that comes along.
song
When all is said and done,
View on Guys sung by you must truly know the
Smokey
person with whom you
Robin-
will be giving your heart
and soul. And no, it’s not
son. It’s
about a
“IN HIS KISS.”
mother
by C. F. Illingworth telling always as the song says
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