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YOUR SELF ANALYSIS PROCESS
In this complicated process of living, there comes a time when we look around at where we are
in life and it looks nothing like what we expected. We remember where we wanted to be by this
time of our lives in our relationships, our work and our achievements, but somehow we got lost on
our path to happiness.
The information and exercises contained in this session will help you to dig more deeply into your
inner self, getting ever closer to the authentic happier you.
We will be searching for significant turning points, EVENTS of pain and joy. The CHOICES that had
a long term positive or detrimental effect on your life and behaviours, and the influences of
significant PEOPLE at various stages of your development, to arrive at the you that you know in
this moment. The findings will tell you whether any of those factors are still influencing your life
and serving your best interests.
Let’s look how our character and personality developed.
Whatever age, sex or colour you happen to be, whatever stage of human development
you may have reached, you will have memories of phases when life seemed more of a trial than
others. You may have experienced a difficult childhood, when you felt unloved, or lacking in
approval. You may have been taught that guilt was a natural state of mind, and through
experience, that trusting others only ended in tear and pain.
Reflecting back over your life, you will have your own recollections of experiences from earlier life
phases that either positively or negatively influenced your beliefs, thoughts and experiences up
to this point. Vitally important learning skills are acquired in our formative years. We receive so
much of that learning as a result of influences received from events, selections (choices) and
people.