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and Religion, East                  Suffering is the process                startled me in this
        and West, paragraph                through which we carry                   apparition state, and I

        497, Jung said, “A                                                          swatted the bed covers
        psychoneurosis must be             something until we can                   at him, which dissipated

        understood, ultimately,            understand it, and that                  the image. Three nights
        as the suffering of a                 aha moment evokes                     later, my boyfriend
        soul which has not                     the healing of self-                 came in wearing the

        discovered its meaning.”                                                    same shirt my dad was
                                                    divisiveness.                   wearing in my dream!


        When I was taking classes at the Jung                  It told me that they were cut from the
        Center, my teacher, Jungian analyst and                same cloth!”
        Episcopal priest, J. Pittman McGehee,

        D.D., gave us the etymology of the word                This is another example of synchronicity:
        ‘suffer.’ It comes from the Latin word                 how the unconscious knows so much

        ferre which means ‘to carry’ and suf                   more than we are conscious of and will
        means the same as sub which means                      help us if we pay attention to our dreams.
        ‘from below.’ To suffer means to carry                 The man she was dating was bringing up

        something from below. In a quick                       for her unfinished issues with her dad.
        amplification, we can see it means to

        stand under which is the beginning of                  Paying attention to our dreams, writing
        the root of the word understanding.                    them down, and making an effort to
        Suffering is the process through which                 remember them is the best way to start

        we carry something until we can                        a relationship with our unconscious.
        understand it, and that aha moment                     Go inside yourself and start by asking

        evokes the healing of self-divisiveness.               questions like, “Why am I so upset about
                                                               this?” “What inside of me is like this
        Another dream that also activated a                    person I cannot stand?” My favorite

        parental complex was one told to me                    question to ask is, “What do you want
        by a good friend of mine. She said,                    from me? I want to know.”

        “In my dream, my dad came to visit
        me. It was after his death, and I was                   “Projections can be withdrawn only when
        awakened by his kiss on my cheek. As                       they come within the possible scope of

        I came to consciousness, I saw him                       consciousness. Outside that, nothing can
        standing there beside my bed wearing                                      be corrected.”

        a houndstooth, small-plaid shirt. He                     — Carl Jung, Mysterium Conuinctionis,
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