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•  Were you fully aware of the way that you were feeling,
                     or have your emotions only come to your attention
                     because you have paused and taken conscious time to
                     notice?
                 •  How easily were you able to identify your different
                     emotions? Is your mind familiar with the different
                     emotional states that you feel? Many of us are not!
                 •  Do you perceive any of these emotions in black and
                     white terms, good or bad, positive or negative?
                 •  Are you aware of any thinking patterns that may be
                     contributing to the intensity of the emotions that you
                     have noticed?
                 •  Are you ‘doubling the load’?
                 •  Do any of your emotions generate further emotions?

              Now using two new fresh pages, one for each of the two new
              categories of the ‘easy and comfortable’ and the ‘uneasy and
              uncomfortable’ feelings, I would invite you to re-list all of the
              emotions that you have identified.

              Any that fall under the easy, more comfortable heading are a
              validation and should be listened to, acknowledged,
              appreciated and — if appropriate — celebrated!

              Any that fall under the more challenging heading are
              requiring your attention.

              In the latter case, without any form of judgement or criticism,
              take some time to consider what it is that these feelings may
              be trying to tell you. How do they relate to the situation that
              you brought to mind?

              Our more challenging emotions are very often a ‘call to
              action’. Something needs to change.


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