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PSYCHOLOGICAL                                                                                             ISSUE No. 1866
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                               PERSPECTIVES                                                                                            JAVANAN
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                              Dr. Alan A.
                              Modarressi                            LOGICAL PERSPECTIVES
                               Clinical and               A SOCIOCULTURAL AND MIND AND BODY OUTLOOK
                             Neuro-Psychologyst           In this column, we examine the mental health issues in the context
                                                        of social, culture, and physiological concerns of the Iranian community

                HELPING YOUR KIDS TO BECOME                                       his lunch box are alike and how they   that’s the worst thing that could hap-
                                                                                  are different.
                                                                                                                    pen because we are wired to express
                                                                                    This 20-minute daily practice
                     BETTER PROBLEM SOLVERS                                       makes kids ‘better problem solvers,’   ourselves and art is an amazing me-
                                                                                                                    dium,” she says.
                                                                                                                      With the understandable desire
                     Ways of Cultivating Problem-Solving                          says Johns Hopkins child develop-  for their kids to be successful, many
                                                                                  ment expert Susan Magsamen.
                                                                                    There are lots  of daily tasks —
                               Skills in Your Children                            eating vegetables, doing homework,   parents only want their children en-
                                                                                                                    gaging in subjects that they feel can
                                                                                  brushing teeth — that kids might   be monetized.
                     esearch  shows  that  in  the   instance, ask him to:        not understand, or care, are ben-   “We’ve created these pathologies
                     course of your child’s day,   Imagine all the different ways to   eficial. But forming these habits are   in our culture about wasting time,”
               Rdozens of questions like         get to school (walking, flying, driv-  necessary for them to become well-  says Magsamen.
               these arise: “What’s inside this   ing, swimming!).                adjusted adults.                    Leaving some space between
               box?”  “How  can  I  get  into  it?”   name everything he can think of   Though, there is one less-talked-  school and sports and extracur-
               “How far can I throw this ball?”   that’s red. name everything he can   about activity that is crucial for child   riculars isn’t wasting time, though.
               “What will happen if I spill all of the   think of that’s round.   development: engaging with and    “Providing that time and space al-
               crayons out of the box?” “I wonder   Imagine all the things he could   creating art.                 lows you to figure out what you like
               if my teddy bear floats?” “How can   make out of clay or paper bags or   “Children who are using the arts   and don’t like and what you think is
               I get these pieces of paper to stick to   even an empty box.       are better problem solvers,” says Su-  beautiful,” she says.
               that piece of paper?” “Why does my   These are good examples of    san Magsamen, co-author of “Your    Providing that time and space al-
               block tower keep falling over?”   thinking  problems  that  have  many   Brain on Art: How the Arts Trans-  lows you to figure out what you like
                 By asking these questions, your   right answers. Research has shown   form Us.” Magsamen is also the   and don’t like and what you think is
               child is identifying and figuring out   that the ability to think fluently has   founder of the International Arts +   beautiful.
               ways to solve them, and trying out   a high  correlation  to  school suc-  Mind Lab, Center for Applied Neu-  Engaging with art doesn’t have to
               her ideas. Every time she experi-  cess later on. Another part of cre-  roaesthetics at Johns Hopkins Uni-  mean enrolling your kids in classes.
               ments with and investigates things   ative thinking is “flexible” thinking,   versity School of Medicine.   It can be economical and low-pres-
               in her world, such as how far water                                  “They are building stronger pre-  sure. In fact, it can be as easy as just
               will squirt from a sprayer and what’s   which is the ability to see many pos-  frontal cortex skills like executive   going outside.
               inside a seedpod, for example, she   sibilities or to view objects or situ-  function and memory. They are able   “Looking up at the clouds and
                                                 ations in different ways.  The next
               is building her ability to solve prob-  time your child pretends a pot is a   to regulate their emotions better.”   finding pictures in the clouds, called
               lems. This is also true when she se-                                 And they don’t have to do it for   pareidolia, that’s a really amazing
               lects materials for building or when   hat or a spoon is a microphone or   all that long to see long-term effects,   activity that kids love,” Magsamen
               she learns to resolve an argument   speculates on all the reasons that a   she says.                 says.
               with a friend or sibling over a toy.  child in a picture might feel sad, he   “To start, integrate 20 minutes of   “Kids love novelty and surprise,
                 If  we  look  at  this  process  more   is practicing his flexible thinking.  some kind of art experience every-  and they are super curious. Where
               closely, we discover that problem   Critical, or logical, thinking is the   day, whether you are a maker or be-  are places you can take kids where
               solving involves both creative and   ability to break an idea into its parts   holder,” she says. “We think it starts   there is awe, and surprise and won-
               critical thinking. Both are necessary   and analyze them. The math skills of   to regulate the nervous system in a   der? Once you’ve got that and you
               to figure out the solutions to prob-  sorting  and  classifying,  comparing   way that changes how we feel.”   see their energy raise, then you can
               lems of all kinds.                similarities  and  differences,  are  all   ‘We are wired to express our-  move them toward activities that are
                 Creative thinking is the heart of   parts of critical thinking. Whenever   selves’                 going to continue to build on that.”
               problem solving. It is the ability   your child looks at, say, two glasses   Both parents and kids often stop   Even certain television programs
               to see a different way to do some-  of juice and tries to figure out which   prioritizing  art  when  it  becomes  a   that prioritize storytelling can be
               thing, generate new ideas, and use   one holds more, he is practicing this   skill that they don’t consider a legiti-  part of your child’s engagement
               materials in new ways. Central to   kind of thinking.  To encourage it,   mate career avenue, says Ivy Ross,   with art. As long as it’s accompanied
               creative thinking is the willingness   ask your child:             co-author of “Your Brain on Art”   by other experiences.
               to take  risks,  to experiment,  and   how many different ways he can   and the vice president of hardware   “It’s  about  time and balance,”
               even to make a mistake. Part of   sort his blocks. how many different   design at Google.            Ross says. “There’s taking in story-
               creative thinking is “fluent” think-  ways he can make a building out of   “Judgment comes in or a teacher   telling and music, then there is mak-
               ing, which is the ability to generate   the blocks. how the building would   says, ‘no that’s not the way you draw   ing with your hands and feeling. It’s
               or  brainstorm  ideas.  So ask  your   be different if he used blocks of only   a tree’ and it shuts down these kids’   almost this diet you want for your
               child “wide-open” questions! For   one size. how a bottle of juice and   desire to make art, and, ironically,   child. This well-balanced diet.”
                       DANESH FOROUGHI, PH.D.                                           Alan Modarressi, PhD, QME

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